@Iwill Could always start with doing it with lower lighting so the room is darker so you wont see everything so clearly, but you’ll both know if you and then you can work up from there bit more light more visibility until both are fully comfortable just to stick on the camera and forget all about it.
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OH has done videos for me before. Took along time for her to build the confidence.
Its weird, its not just a sex thing but a trust thing too. And i find them naughty as hell and it sends me insane.
Same as sending naughty pics back and forth between us. As well as the sex / naughty side of it there is the trust.
As for watching them, she doesn’t like watching herself. At all. As much as i find her sexy as hell, like so many of we all have issues with how we look / sound, body image etc…
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@Kinky-Bhoy
Good points…I’m fairly comfortable in myself, just OH a bit more reserved.
It is just something I’ve wanted to do.
Porn star for the day…no need to worry about getting paid for the money shot.
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I think majority of men are more than comfortable getting naked for the camera lol, but yea the advice was aimed helping the OH get more comfortable…
Was always the dream growing up fucking for money sounds good to me lol
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@HanoiRocks omg yes - trust is a HUGE thing when it comes so something like this.
I could never dream of doing it with or for somebody else EVER!
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Mrs Sen is dead against it, the thought of having herself captured on video is a hard no (fear of it being seen by others), I can’t say I’d be too keen for that reason too.
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@forwardghoul52
WOW 
How mature!
Something like that has the potential to really affect someone’s self-esteem and confidence going forwards.
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@Senator I used to feel that way but no longer.
Hubby and I have been together like forever & our love for each other keeps getting stronger even though I never thought that was possible.
So I have allowed myself to let go of those fears.
@SexInTheCity - will deffo try this, I think it will make a big difference to how I feel when watching it.
@agirlnamedS I feel your pain!!
@teacake
I’m thinking that maybe I can battle this by doing it a few more times so I can start to feel comfortable and start to enjoy watching myself.
You guys are awesome, I love how open, kind and informative everyone is 
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@Senator
I can understand her fear… my OH similar.
Thought about suggesting the old hand held video camera, safer than phone video . Can always delete after viewing.
But at end of day a video it isn’t my biggest priority , plenty of other things to stimulate.
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We have found out how important angles are. Have taken some photos or been on webcams where we look awful but a slight change in angle then makes all the difference.
Thank god for digital cameras.
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I dont think I would of been happy with her at all if my partner had done that. I don’t think I could of laughed with her. All about the confidence even the person looks silly you don’t say it, my ex was a confidence builder even when I was wearing her clothes.
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@Dsafo such a good idea - I never thought of wearing a mask. Then I could just pretend it’s not me 
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Sadly I had zero luck getting to take videos or even pictures of my wife when we were much younger . You may have noticed I do not have the same issues by my picture count on here . I do not have any idea how many videos I have of myself , but quite a few . BTW , I do not talk in any of my home made erotica . I also do not care for the sound of my voice in normal videos .
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Yea what is it about us hating our own voice it is cringing, is that how I sound that’s it then I’m never going to talk again
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I think everyone hates the sound of their recorded voice! Strange isn’t it?
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Not really no,
thank you for your concern x
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Thank you…
Maybe it’s just me 