Wats best way to make your partner cone hard
Leaving it out of the packet is usually the easiest way to make a cone hard.
Putting in the fridge makes it go soft I find.
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Loving your work AJ82.
A butt-plug usually does the trick for me.
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Telling her the meal and the clothes shopping are on me usually does the trick 
The more you know a person, the better it is. Start with communication and shpwing each other how you like to be touched. Then watch how her body reacts when you touch her in the ways she’sshowed you. If you can read her body so that she doesn’t need to tell you (in the moment) what she needs, that will be a massive step closer to intensity.
Ultimately communication is your starting point.
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Lick, suck, kiss. Repeat.
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Trick question… I only have one woman.
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Buy her a clit sucker toy.
I don’t think there is a ‘silver bullet’ answer. As @JoCat has said it’s all about learning your partner’s body so communication is key but follow their feedback if they have problems discussing sex. Grinding of hips, little moans all give you confidence that you are hitting the right spots. My partner can change from day to day in terms of pressure she likes on her clit, if she enjoys butt play etc so I just adapt. I would say is that I feel that the more relaxed she/I am the better the sex. Give her confidence and let her know how hot she is, how you love the way she looks, smells tastes. For my partner combined orgasms seem to be the strongest so whatever you are doing make sure you use your hands or mouth to stimulate her in other ways. Lastly as others have mentioned some toys can help, read reviews and invest in some good quality sex toys but again these are personal preference so don’t be discouraged if they don’t all work first time or ever. We’ve had toys that she found disappointing on first and some 5 star review toys that just weren’t a good fit for her body, again when using toy’s combining with other play seems to really work for my partner.
Oral sex, usual when she orgasms I continue to lightly flick her clitoris with the tip of my tongue until she can’t take anymore and pushes my head away.
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SO i have no pysical experience but I think the big 1 to make your woman orgasm is praising her lots with true words while fucking,fingering etc… Also kissing or light touching parts of her body that doesnt get much attention is another good way to encourage orgasms… Ah yeah lightly kissing the neck like her skin is made of tissue paper, while moving around the neck so she has no idea where the next kiss will be, is another 1 to make her wet and wanting you… But I could be talking bollox as Ive never had sex, but woman are quite shocked that Im a virgin with the stuff I know..