I love wax play, and the candles from the bondage man are awesome. As I am in a D/s relationship, for me personally I find wax play very erotic (as I’m normally tied up at the time Ha Ha) – but its just as much about the emotional / trust side too.
The temperature that the wax melts determines the heat you feel from the wax when it reaches your body. Some candles that have a lower melting point can be used closer to the body, others have higher melting points and need to be held further away.
The Bondage Man’s candles are of the lower melting point variety. With these candles Mr Scorpius varies the height that he drips the wax from 12 inches (which gives a nice warming sensation) to 3 inches (which can be very intense), but still will not cause a burn for me – although I do get nice pink marks that last for a short while, which I really love – lol.
As with any candle - the closer the candle is to your body, the more intense the experience will be. Try dropping the wax from various heights to experience different sensations. Always start from higher at the beginning and slowly lower the height as you feel comfortable.
Do bear in mind, that the wax dropped from a greater height will tend to ‘splash’ as it hits your skin – so I lay on a large towel to protect our bed.
Something fun to try, if your partner is comfortable being blindfolded - is secretly having some ice-cold water in a cup when using the candles, and occasionally dripping the water instead of the wax. You’ll be amazed at how your partner will think it is still the wax!
Btw, I love your avatar pic Monday Sixteenth! :D xx