So not sure if I handled this correctly? So we attend well let’s call it what it is a sex club. Every often we attend Spanko nights. On this particular night the dungeon monitor was a younger woman very pleasant .
Later in the evening after the Icebreaker game I found myself being ordered into my panties for a good firm spanking on the stage. There was not a whole lot left to the imagination it was very clear why I was there and what was going to happen.
Fast forward a few days I run into a local retail store and who do I run into the dungeon monitor. I just wanted to crawl out of my skin.
I wasn’t sure how to handle it so I just gave a casual glance and moved on, not really acknowledging her but not being rude either .
Same happens with us if we meet a fellow naturist out of context, you are both there for the same reason so no need to be embarrassed. Not that you have to relive the experience there and then is it ?
It happens, I’ve been in town before and ran into the Dom I served for a short time. What made it so awkward was that far from being civil he instead tried to stare me down. We didn’t end on good terms.
I generally just smile and give an acknowledging look. If she’s at work she probably most definitely doesn’t want you to start chatting to her, even if it’s not about how you met. Just in case any of her colleagues said “how do you know them”.
@Weeradge the really damning part was he was a reputable Dom so when he wanted to play with me I thought my luck was in. I soon realised that I was just another number to him and it was all about his ego, he ignored my safeword and even wanted me to have sex with him at events and I knew that was against the rules. It happens, you sometimes meet big egos on both sides of the coin. I just see the need to be in control at all costs as a sign of insecurity and incompatibility and move on.
@wcd if it happens again just try smiling and saying hello, some of us are more social than others and you’ll soon find which ones are which. The House Mistress of the club I used to attend is still on my Facebook friends list. If anyone asks, she’s a friend. That’s all the explanation it needs.
Haha!! I’m sure she’s very used to seeing her clients out of work blank her so wouldn’t think into it much but me being me I’d end up smiling and saying hey awkwardly then blurting out something like my bum has calmed down now after the other night, or have you spanked anyone else of recent?!
Well it looks like it could be a regular thing? Saw her again at work on Friday. I kind of tried to do the nothing to see here thing. There was no one else around it was early in the am. She said how are you doing? I was like oh my and said ok. She was like you know it’s ok to say hi. I replied back sorry I wasn’t sure how to handle that ? She said oh you’re fine it’s nice to know you were concerned about my privacy.
Please be careful about identifying her to others. Whilst she might be fine about you saying hi to her when you see her, she likely won’t be okay with you identifying her as kinky. For some people the ramifications can be extreme, so we owe it to one another to be discreet when we see each other outside of a kink event
Absolutely that’s why I kind of risked coming across as rude the first time I saw her. Figured better to do that and explain later.
But it all worked out well , I have seen her a few times since at work and we will say hello in the most vanilla fashion. She even mentioned how nice it was of me to be so concerned with protecting her privacy.
