A new harness so it’s a toy and clothing at the same time. But also what about massage oils, aromatherapy and massage candles.
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Knocking up some tostadas for lunch and prepping some chicken tikka to turn into butter chicken for tea!
Got up early, got a load of washing hanging out and now sat in the garden. Gorgeous weather today!
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I’m currently sitting giggling at some of the comments on my blog (note, I haven’t published these, as I often don’t). To summarise:
Firstly, I’m a disgrace to feminists for allowing myself to just be taken in free-use.
Secondly, I’m a disgrace to my man for allowing myself to be shagged by other men.
Thirdly, I’m a disgrace to all women for not being stronger and more dominating.
Fourthly, I’m a disgrace to all women for not being weaker and more subservient.
Fundamentally, I’m a disgrace. I’m just giggling. If those are your views, should you even be reading a sex blog at all? It’s not like I’m hiding what I am and what I do.
I think I’m going to be disgraceful again in a few hours. I just can’t stop myself! 
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Bloody hell @KinkyMira i did not realise you got abuse from so many. If they don’t like it they should not read it. Yes your life style is unusual but thank god we are not all the same. In my world if you are not hurting anyone then its up to you to decide what you want to do with your life. I for one love your blog and admire everything about you and your life.
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I was lucky I had a discussion with a long standing sex blogger as I started up, and she warned me I might get some abuse. If I’m honest, I don’t get that much, I just happened to get 4 this weekend, and the only way to deal with it is to just laugh. Some of them are so ridiculous, it is beyond belief.
I don’t publish them or respond to them, because it is meant to be a positive space. I just laugh at them in private xx
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@KinkyMira wow! As you say, why would these people be reading your blog?! Good thing you have a thick enough skin and enough life experience to see the pathetic nature of the comments and see the funny side. You are a stronger lady than I 
. Good warning for those thinking of starting a similar blog or an only fans page or similar though, be prepared for arseholes.
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Browsing and commenting on the forum for the first time in a while (apologies for that!) whilst sat in the shade of a in flower wisteria covered pergola drinking a cold one contemplating what to do next as it really is to nice to be inside doing diy…
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I was thinking exactly the same @KinkyMira
I love your blog…long may it continue! 
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Just lighting the pizza oven and pouring a glass of wine…
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‘Wishfully’ thinking I’ll find some enthusiasm to do housework by scrolling the forum
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Filling bath so I can go get all clean and shaven for our fun and games later
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Sitting in the garden of some friends, in only a dressing gown, listening to the birds. So peaceful.
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I’ve only just noticed tbis comment but as a sister in submission (and disgrace 
) and fellow kinky sex blogger I think the biggest disgrace is the ones who shame. Have they any idea how much strength it takes to do what we do? Or to go through what we go through and then ask someone (our partners) for more? Nothing about us is weak. It’s projection honey, don’t let their envy bother you
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Just had breakfast (sausages, baked beans and scrambled egg on toast with a glass of OJ for those curious) and now about to take the dog out then get some serious computer work done. I’ve got a whole bunch of Slowly (digital penpal app, highly recommend it, but no i’m not sharing my ID under the forum rules, sorry ) letters to reply to, a blog post from lasf week to finish (I was at a birthday party Saturday night, hence the delay), another to start and a diary post to finish. Then maybe I csn think about doing some housework!
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I just want to say that I for one appreciate the things you both go through. I am sure you also get a great deal of pleasure from it all as well which is a bonus. @KinkyMira @Tenshadesandme Love to you both.
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I think I speak for the both of us when I say that we wouldn’t do it if we didn’t
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Supposed to be working but decided to have a break and now watching some trans porn
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On me billy,having a few pints in town before meeting friends for dinner and more beer!!!
What could possibly go wrong…
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