Been looking online at some of the sex dungeon furniture, trying to decide what i would want.
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@Wood-Nymph - tell us more .. sex dungeon furniture!! Very interested
The site which was very interesting was unfortunately based in the usa so there would be import taxes and some items they dont ship outside the usa. I have found some sites based in the uk that do lots of different sex swings and various different benches, st andrews crosses, queening chairs/stools. So i am currently making a list of things i would like in our playroom when we move, hopfully going on the market end of April.
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Mrs W here ……….
Standing in the Kitchen making my 3rd cuppa this morning and catching up on LH …….. been watching my recorded programmes for the past 90 minutes or so and mulling over last evening with Pen ….. have a great Valentine’s Day all, and please stay safe xxxx
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Hi, hope you and your mr W have a great love holiday 
. Thank you for being you.
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Not long got home after hubby taking me out for my first driving lesson 
You read/hear horror stories about partners teaching the other to drive. But it went so well, he was so patient with me giving me instructions, step by step cos he knows I get overwhelmed with too much information at once. So nerve wracking, but once I started to get the hang of it, I started to relax and pick it up a bit quicker. Just got to remember gently with the acceleration 
can’t wait to get back out there.
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Having a slow start today… breakfast at the swimmingpool, drinking my own coconutwater, full sun and it’s really warm today. Having a (so far) very beautiful day…
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Just had my morning cuppa in bed. Two pussies for company, and, as always, window open for fresh air and to allow the pussies to go in and out onto the terrace.
I’m taking Mrs LC to the airport this arvo. She is off to the UK “small person sitting” for half term. Getting up now as I need to be “up and at ‘em”
Have a good Sunday all 
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Mrs W here……..
Sounds the right way to start the day @Latino_Caliente ….. I bet Mrs LC will enjoy her “small person sitting” but make sure she packs some warm clothing, the forecast for this week in UK is about zero degrees (praps a little more) plus rain and/or sleet plus biting winds……. hope everybody has a great day, stay safe loves xxx
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Woke up an hour ago, couldn’t sleep… I went to the garden and took a dive in the pool… 15 mins of swimming… now I’m back in the bed again… it’s 3:48am. Maybe now I can sleep…
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Getting up to throw on my clubwear and head off to a sports competition… different kinda sweatiness back home and night out tonight ….
Husband ended up ripping off my new lingerie last night at about midnight so I’m officially wrecked but super happy 
perfect 24 hours (sex, compete, party………prob more sex) happy happy sunday 
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Just getting ready for breakfast after a Valentine’s night away.
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Sounds like a great way to prepare for a Sunday. Good luck today. @Sunshine3
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Sitting on here, and on a friend’s sex blog. Basically I’m waiting for my husband to wake up and give me my morning anal. These days, I don’t really feel my day can get going until I have it.
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@KinkyMira lucky husband, and lucky you
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On the settee naked, browsing the forum, doing some window shopping, will be jumping in the shower soon before waking Mrs Balls up with a cup of tea and a hopefull look on my face.
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ADHD meds won’t kick in for a good few weeks yet so I’m mining dopamine to try to get passed the ADHD paralysis and do some actual work. Been like this for months now after making myself ill. Just want to get back to normal. Hate feeling useless.
So right now, I’m doom scrolling LH, trying to get my brain fired up so I can at least make a start. If I can do that I’ll be good for a few hours. At least thats what I’m telling myself even though I know its rubbish.
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Wow, you put that in such a good way! I’ve been trying to put the ‘paralysis’ into words for a while, but never managed it. Can I ask what you use to increase dopamine? No worries if you’d rather not share. The only thing I’ve found is exercise but I have a habit of breaking myself! I hope the meds kick in for you, I know how frustrating it is when you need to do something but can’t.
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Yes its frustrating. I find the unnecessary guilt takes its toll too. I know everyone says they understand but from the outside it does look like laziness and I can’t abide the thought of that. It was my work ethic that made me ill so I know I’m not lazy.
I agree that exercise is the absolute best in the moment though I’m of an age were it just wipes me out. Fantastic though for general mood and I find its mental benefits are cumulative.
Doom scrolling is actually the worst because I just get stuck in a loop. It feeds itself like an addiction, a constant stream of dopamine that locks you in. Until something external comes along, like my phone dies, its incredibly hard to get out of.
Funnily enough writing can help lift my mood. ASD causes the classic verbal communication problems but I find I can write for hours and get a boost from it. Sadly I rarely get that to carry over to work and it hasn’t lifted my writing skills beyond that of a teenager! 
I find food can be good, especially anything strong and stimulating, spicy or sweet. Strong cheese on toast with lots of chilli flakes can be just enough. Wasabi peas can be great as can English mustard on just about anything. And I have to alternate it. The ASD made me eat the same food for over a decade but understanding how the ADHD works now I force myelf to vary it more. Choosing dopamine over safety.
Talking to my wife can bring me back in the room ( I experience a lot of de-realization when overwhelmed ) and that sudden grounding gives me enough to get going.
Masturbation can be good but in different ways. If I don’t finish I can keep the dopamine quite high and run with it but remaining horny can prove too distracting. If I do finish, thats the only time the chaos in my head quietens, and once I come round from that the endorphins have me raring to go. I’m wary of relying on it too much but it explains why I’m here so often ATM.
Cleaning the kitchen, living room or bedroom ( which I can’t actually do when it needs to be done ) are usually small, compact jobs that can be completed in a short period of time. That sense of ticking something off a list is a big help.
Doing anything at the last moment. So if my wife is due home and I’ve promised to do something, running round in a mad panic is the only way I can get it done and the urgency gives a boost of dopamine that can be carried forward.
Likewise if I get an urgent job in with a quick turn around time, I have no problems. The dopamine hits hard and I can sail through it.
If a particular job requires research, I can get right into that. Thats like getting paid to do contructive, purposeful doom scrolling and its guaranteed to be a subject I can find some interest in. That feeds itself in a useful, usable way.
For a while I would spend a few hours of a morning doing a hobby. That could give me enough to work right through the rest of the day but since I‘ve been ill I’ve not been able to face any hobbies.
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And I know I write too much .. I’m deliberately not reining it in atm .. but I appreciate it can be intimidating when it comes to replying. I never expect the same degree of OTTness back.
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Thanks for this! It’s helpful to ‘speak’ to other neurodivergent people. I found myself thinking, ‘yes, yes, I can relate to this’ as I read your reply. I’m off to the gym now so hopefully I’ll have enough energy to read and reply properly later.
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