Hii!! So I’m in a bit of a tricky situation at the moment, I want to buy more sex toys and/or bdsm item but I’m not sure what. I’m generally very pro-kink so I feel like I’ve got pretty much everything but because I’m greedy I want to experience more
What’s your favourite sex toy, bdsm device, piece of lingerie, etc? I need some inspiration so I would LOVE to know everyone’s favourites!!
For me I love my Cottelli outfits - all look stunning and feel great when wearing them and they give your partner the instant thought that I mean business
I normally dress pretty dark, gothic, punk, etc so my lingerie is pretty similar to that. Normally it consists of lots of fishnets, suspender belts, garters and my personal favourite… stockings!
Here are a couple of the things I wear occasionally:
I also have this cute two piece maid’s dress thing which I usually pair with fishnet stockings. I’ve got a paddle that at one end is a feather duster and the other a paddle, teaches my sub a lesson for expecting me to clean for them
I’m normally very against medical play due to some past trauma but this looks fun
I could imagine gently digging into my partner’s skin and slowly applying more pressure if they don’t behave. They’d enjoy it too (they’re such a masochist)
That being said, I’d be slightly tempted to buy ten of them and walk around like wolverine
You got good taste as I also have that bra (if you can call it a bra) and I’m obsessed with stockings and suspenders- a total must for me
I love being dominant in the bedroom and really enjoy the fact my husband is a very willing submissive and I adore spanking him
Its a total reversal for me as I used to be very naturally submissive- but one day I wanted role reversal and do it started and I love it - don’t get me wrong I still like being submissive every so often and having old school sex - but I fantasise more about being a proper dominatrix (but only with my husband- I’m not into sharing partners)
I just bought a crop and a tickler but they are XXXMas presents so havent been able to use them. My favorite recent purchase was a flogger. I absolutely love the sights and sounds of using it on Mrs. Kat.
I would REALLY like to hear about the pump function of this. I have looked at this and the Lovehoney Rose Pussy Pump with Clitoral Stimulator but Im not sure about the pump part. Anything you would care to share is appreciated.
At the moment smaller toys seem to be my go to with solo play as I find more pleasure from them than the bigger ones so currently I like my bullet vibe and metal butt plug
Favourite impact toy is our Bondage Boutique Slim Leather Crop. Great thwack to it.
The under bed restraints set from the LH advent calendar 2 years ago is permanently in place but tucked away out of sight. It’s a perfect fit for us and the bed.
We have pretty much the full set of LH’s faux snakeskin restraints; those are our go-to.
Original Doxy wand for all your over-the-top vibration needs
And if we are going all-out, then the DIY stockade we buil in lockdown out of shop shelving metal tubes
There is another toy I like from LH but can’t find the name. It looks like a ruler made from leather just perfectly sized for ladies hands. If you find your hands are mischiveous
Ive never used a pump before so havent got anything to compare to bit i teally like it. My review is on tge page. Its the only review on there so hopefully will give you a bit more info
I love my collection of paddles - all quite long as I love to feel the sting on my bum with a well aimed spank
My bf is the same he loves the paddle but recently k love my dildos I use on him - it’s great when he wants pegging - I just cannot wait to get my strap on deep in his ass
‘BDSM related toys and items’ is incredibly vague, but sure, I’ll still play.
My hand? It dominates, chokes, slaps, rubs, squeezes, pulls, pushes etc.
Failing that, we have a number of crops, paddles, canes etc, all of which we rotate and she loves.
so currently I like my bullet vibe and metal butt plug
Used to be dominant, still dominant at work but submissive at home.
