I was wondering what other think of bondage and what they enjoy doing!
I am the sub in our relationship, so enjoy being restrained and used. I dont mind a small amount of pain, such as clamps etc, but no more. I think the anticipation and control is the main turn on for me.
im quite similar. i dont like alot of pain. i like being tied up and spanked etc, but its the act, not the pain that does it. if im in too much pain its a complete turn off!! x
Theres been a discussion on the forum about 'pussy spanking'. Most people do it gently. The Deal of the day today is a vibrawhip. I've already got one and personally think it's excellent! It works nice for normal spanking and pussy spanking/tapping while vibrating! I find my girl loves the anticipation with of spanking her arse and pussy as she isn't sure which is next!
Hope that helps (and you get one!)
I like my OH being in charge and me being tied up.
Has anyone tried the over the door restraint?? I'm only 5'2"
i do love being kept in my restraints for a while, once he's finished. Again i think it's the uncertainty how long I'll be there or if he decides to start again.
5 2! I'm guessing they need to be adjustable then! Although I now have a very funny image of someone dangling from a door for hours! Hehe
WandA wrote:
5 2! I'm guessing they need to be adjustable then! Although I now have a very funny image of someone dangling from a door for hours! Hehe
I'll have to get some of them porn star wedge heels to give me a few extra inchesExternal Media
At least you won't fall over and suffer injury tied to a door!
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16465
Be careful not to impale your OH though....
WandA wrote:
At least you won't fall over and suffer injury tied to a door!
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16465
Be careful not to impale your OH though....
they could hurt!! look fun, though!! x
poppy904 wrote:
WandA wrote:
At least you won't fall over and suffer injury tied to a door!
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16465
Be careful not to impale your OH though....
they could hurt!! look fun, though!! x
yeah i would def need holding up to wear themExternal Media
Could go for the double dildo stilts look... I'm sure that would drive your hubby crazy!
hm well i like the idea of olaying bondage games but as im single i havent been able to play at all
however i am a sub through and through and i hate being dom on relationships. its not a fetish for me but i love playing
toy wise ive had a clit pump and i have a pussy pump on order. (unfortunatley from a rival company who are being a pain atm)
sweetlove666 wrote:
hm well i like the idea of olaying bondage games but as im single i havent been able to play at all
however i am a sub through and through and i hate being dom on relationships. its not a fetish for me but i love playing
toy wise ive had a clit pump and i have a pussy pump on order. (unfortunatley from a rival company who are being a pain atm)
I was curious about a clit pump a while for my girl? They any good? When I tried to find forums for info I found some pretty scary pics....
WandA wrote:
sweetlove666 wrote:
hm well i like the idea of olaying bondage games but as im single i havent been able to play at all
however i am a sub through and through and i hate being dom on relationships. its not a fetish for me but i love playing
toy wise ive had a clit pump and i have a pussy pump on order. (unfortunatley from a rival company who are being a pain atm)
I was curious about a clit pump a while for my girl? They any good? When I tried to find forums for info I found some pretty scary pics....
most ones you cnget on here arnt the daunting type. i got this one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=5637 it made my clit a lot more sensivitve but not unconfortable. the vibe bit didnt work too well on it but the feeling is similar to oral i guess.
ps the review is my first one so its not too good
Puppies77 wrote:
I like my OH being in charge and me being tied upExternal Media.
Has anyone tried the over the door restraint?? I'm only 5'2"External Media
I'm 5'8 and have plenty of arm movement when we use the over door restraints. You'll be ok at 5'2 I reckon...but wont be able to move much External Media
Would you say there for anyone or quite specialised? Thats one of the reasons I didn't get it, I thought it mightn't be for everyone when we're fairly vanilla.
WandA wrote:
Would you say there for anyone or quite specialised? Thats one of the reasons I didn't get it, I thought it mightn't be for everyone when we're fairly vanilla.
well one way is to ask her beorehand, i think it might be very wise with a toy of this sort. some of them you can get are a bit less intimidating than others. but i think it is a toy she has to control herself because of the pressure in it and everything, they dont hurt but the sucking can be a bit intense at times.
sweetlove666 wrote:
WandA wrote:
Would you say there for anyone or quite specialised? Thats one of the reasons I didn't get it, I thought it mightn't be for everyone when we're fairly vanilla.
well one way is to ask her beorehand, i think it might be very wise with a toy of this sort. some of them you can get are a bit less intimidating than others. but i think it is a toy she has to control herself because of the pressure in it and everything, they dont hurt but the sucking can be a bit intense at times.
It was gonna be a surprise. I went with a butterfly vibe at the time instead. Hmmm its in the mental wishlist!
the one i had was fairly good, well made but it drained the batteries quickly and was awkward to position on my own.
but again thats just my experience and can be different to other peoples. the only way to know is by talking about it with her, or something like "you know when i suck your clit do you like it/ would you like it if you had a toy that could do it when your on your own" and gauge her reactions. not exactly subtle but might be worth a try
Puppies77 wrote:
WandA wrote:
5 2! I'm guessing they need to be adjustable then! Although I now have a very funny image of someone dangling from a door for hours! Hehe
I'll have to get some of them porn star wedge heels to give me a few extra inchesExternal Media
Why do I have the image of you tied to the door, metal bar leg spreader, and a child's booster seat under each foot?
