I guess there is two ways to measure. Either from the front side (Pubic bone area, to the tip) or from the back side. (Tip to balls) and I also imagine both measurements would be quite different! I imagine the back measurement would be a few inches more than the front measurement.
Who knows though. I don't actually care really...my post was just in jest because of the exceptionally large amount of extra extra large penis measurements! I was just ribbing the guys lol.
Like MrsMc said, there are so many penis size posts that you start to lose the will to read them. Also lose the will to type out "Size doesn't matter" 3000 times so I thought I would try ribbing instead. Hehe
Well, Iāve only ever really seen one full-sized penis. My husband. My trans friend is tinyā¦sheās got about 3 inches. Iāve got about 2 inches of enlarged clit. Iād guess my husband is 6" or 7", and it seems very, very large. When he cums in me, it goes in so deep it never comes out again. I canāt imagine something bigger being usable. All about perspective I guess.
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Anything over 8 is to much for me personally. Under 5 iām never going to enjoy being on top either.
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Iād be interested in answers for length and girth
Under 5 too small for you or only too small for you being on top?
Anything under 4 is small
Anything over 7 is big
But size isnt everything
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Iāve gone through life assuming mine is average, maybe a little thin. I worried about it when young, but a few things put my mind at ease.
- Realising that sex is mostly mental. Iām not saying size doesnāt matter; if any participant is fixated upon it, it will matter, and if they are focused on other things, it wonāt.
- Recognising that itās all relative and subjective. Iāve been told by different partners that mine is:
- A Pencil dick
- The biggest theyāve seen irl
- Below average
- Uncomfortably large when fully in
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This website is backed by a host of studies and is a great way of getting some perspective. Note that the the way you measure makes a huge difference.
- Measured Pornstars (reddit & forum) - TLDR: Women in porn tend to be very small, camera tricks make things big, huge size claims are clickbait, this pushes perceived average penis size way up.
This led to me to the happy place of recognising that Iām probably above average and it likely has no bearing on my own or my partners sexual satisfaction. And finally, if someone wants to be stretched, Iām a dab hand with a dildo, sheaths are good fun (got an ace Phreak one, and would love to see more options from Lovehoney) and thereās always DP! Weāre on a sex toy forum, plenty of ways to enhance yourself!
I used to think women just say all this to make us guys feel ok about our penis size. When you watch any porn its a distorted view of men. I dont watch big cock porn but if you go to the comments theres quite a lot of women responding with comments like " I wish i had that in me". SPH vids get defended well by women and slated by menā¦ Thanks to your honest comments I feel glad to be me.
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@Curvy_bbw that last comment made me smile always how big males what about us ladies
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I have still to this day have the same thought about this one as well. 
Now thatās really strange coz i have no problem on the subject of lady boob sizeā¦ The only thing i would say is that the penis is more integral to the act of sex and the breasts are like the icing on the cake. I love boobs and over my longish life have had partners with huge ones, small ones, pert ones, saggy ones, big nips, small nips, flat chested, and every single pair are amazingly gorgeous. At present they are pretty big and they are hangers and i love emā¦ I guess its fair to say that when you fall in love with someone, you kinda fall in love with everything about them regardless of size and shape etc. You fall in love with the person you wake up with, argue with and snore with. The person you can fart in front of, masturbate in front of, have a pee whilst they are in the shower. Inhibitions disappear and they become your best friend. Someone you can trust with every aspect of your life. From simple conversations and opinions to openness and honesty it becomes more than the shape and size of your body. I think its called loveā¦ She calls mine āmy buddyā i call hers āmy sexy pussyā I refer to her breasts as āmy big ole tittyāsā ā¦ whatever floats your boatā¦ At the end of the day we love each other so much and we are stuck together like glue. So no matter what our body shape and size is doesnāt really matter. I just love every perfect imperfection coz i know she does too.
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As some of you may know, I did a bathmate blog, Iām naturally around 6ā and quite thick, using the bathmate increased my length and girth which as I guy I did like, but mrstoysrus found the extra near inch length and girth, too much, I did end up hurting her on numerous occasions, that along with the upkeep of daily use made me stop using it, so all the āaverageā sized guys out there, donāt be disheartened, extra length is not always better, obviously there will always be people who love bigger, but as I found out, bigger for some is not always best
Sounds about right in all departments lol hope your ok
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Agreed, I am so subconscious about my lower area I still do this day think about how to change things down there physically myself without pills , pumps and what have you. I still try to hide this area from my wife of 24 years and we are planning on doing something different with the bedroom time this June. Iām stuck with what I have I guess. But boobs are a BEAUTIFUL site no matter what they look like and the rear is definitely a second for me. 
There is no need to change a thing. You are perfect as you areā¦ You just need to accept it and smile.
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A water pump penis extender
Whatever you think is small is small and whatever big is big. Iām a bit perplexed when people say between 5 and 7 inches is average. Think of height that would be like saying anyone between 5 and 7 feet is average when in reality one is small and the other very large. A 7 inch penis is 40% longer than a five incher . Then of course girth complicates things further. So Iād say itās not that easy to express your impression of size in inches.
Couldnāt agree more. And women, trans & non-binary folks too.
Watching mainstream porn to learn about sex is, I think, a bit like watching WWE wrestling to learn about fighting. Itās not the actual thing: Itās a choreographed fantasy.
Back on the OPās question: I heard recently that average penis length for porn performers is around 3 inches longer than the general population average.
Now, apart from appealing to certain fun (though not always harmless) fantasies, the extra length is seen as useful to those directing and filming the shots, as it allows more scope to 'open upā the action, to make space for the cameras, and give the audience a better view.
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