Last Friday I was in a group of like minded individuals where pegging their male partners is popular and it was asked what we get out of it (as a woman who wears a strap on dildo)
There were mixed reactions- mine is I like to see the dildo slide in and out but also love the power - others say they don’t like it at all but only do it to satisfy their partner
Can I therefore ask fellow peggers what they get out of it (or if you get pegged what your partner likes about it)
Happy pegging 
From my wife, like you she likes watching it go in and out. At the beginning it wasn’t so much of a power dynamic, but this year she has experimented with being more dominant, and likes to give me a spank, make me suck her dildo or please her before she pegs me. She also likes and gets turned on seeing me have prostate orgasms and being able to make me come hands free. Us pegging was all her idea which is a turn on for me because I know she enjoys it and not just doing it because I asked.
Mrs W here …
For me personally, when pegging Mr W I love watching the dildo sliding in and out of him… I can remember when I first became sexually active and I was more supple I loved watching my partners dick moving back and forth and could feel it going in and out of me … it is such a beautiful feeling that has no parallel. I guess it is a primeval force eons old, inside me to reproduce, similar to the feeling I get when I see an erect dick … the feelings only subside when the ultimate orgasm is achieved …
@batjamboree as you know we have been looking at pegging now for some time
We have purchased the harness and dildo. For me when I wear it it gives me a sense of power seeing it sticking out and gleaming with lube
I also love thecway it slides in and out of my OH and when he sucks it prior to me entering him
@Trixie-n-Russell thanks for the hart only just got into pegging . Just looked at your Christmas pic stunning how do you find that large dildo waving around ?
For my wife pegging me, she likes the role reversal/power dynamic of it although she hasn’t gotten too much into the dominant side of it yet (but I think she’s starting to more). She also likes seeing the effect and pleasure it has on me such as the moaning, squirming in pleasure, prostate orgasms that is very different than penile stimulation!