It occurred to me reading another thread yesterday that I don’t think I have ever thought about my husband whilst masturbating on my own, literally not once. Needless to say, this has shocked me somewhat, I can’t say I had ever really given much thought to what I did (or didn’t!) think about.
Talking to the husband about it, he says he only thought about me when we weren’t having sex for a few months earlier in the year. Other than that, he says he just thinks about whatever porn he is watching at the time.
For me, it is mostly memory linked Either something the OH and I have done, or more recently, I am trying wearing undies designed for vulva owners, and I take pics and then use those when masturbating, along with the memory. Occasionally I fantasize but not frequently.
Gosig, I was thinking about that HYE thread too. I think about situations and scenarios that don't even include me let alone my Husband. Never questioned it before.
Normally I’ll think about a kinky session we’ve had in the past, used to matsurbate to porn but now I spend so much time trying to find a video to watch I just give in
I think about my hubby's big cock or FF action!! Best of both worlds!!
Like Mrs John says, sometimes other scenarios like 'spit roasting' (no one in particular, just the thought of it!!)
Depends what gets me going at the time. x
And yes, I have questioned it before, but I guess it's normal for everyone to think about different sexual fantasies to get turned on. I just accept it now.
A warm apple crumble with a sprinkling of cinnamon sugar and custard ... on a serious note it’s usually whatever thoughts come into my head in the moment, I don’t have one particular kink so one time it could be memories and another could be a fantasy which I would like to play out. If i watch porn then I tend to kind of drift off and just focus on the visuals.
Gosig now that is shocking lol
I do tend to think of my girlfriend when I masturbate sometimes I don't it does depend if i have been watching porn, if it's i'm horny i need to whack one out then in general i will think of my girlfriend my mind is a very naughty/kinky area, but I will also get out my dedicated Tablet that just has pictures of her normal and sexy naughty pictures, and when it's time to let go I will leave it on a picture and have more naughty thoughts on it, and I don't mind saying sometimes I talk out aloud like she is there it just comes out as i'm masturbating.
I also have some sexy pictures she had printed off for me so sometimes i wil go in the bathroom and have a nice relaxing bath with her pictures stuck all around the wall.
The times i'm not thinking about her then my mind has some real kinky thoughts hey it's my mind and it's ok to think about other things that gets me going lol