I've just purchased an Aneros Trident and tried it properly for the first time today for just over an hour. I had to wiggle and tap it a bit to get something happening but after that I could just leave it and let the pleasure happen.
What I first experienced was a long spasm where my body went rigid, my bum lifted up, I felt loads of pressure in my lower half and my head/neck got full of blood. I did experience a little bit of fluid out of the penis but nothing much.
After this I experienced several more of these over the hour most pleasureable and a few were fairly strong. But I never came at all just litle bits of pre-cum, neither did I ever feel the urge to pee, etc, which I've heard is what the orgasm does?
So was this what it is meant to feel like or were these just a mild pre-orgasm events lol? I have only started using it like I said so likely I have a long was to go yet. But justed wanted input from others who have experienced strong Prostate orgasms please, cheers.
Similar to what you described, except I felt the need to orgasm and did. It was a full normal ejaculation.The build up and climax were both very strong.
There are some really interesting articles on the subject if you google search it.
Some good points here https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/1840326-anal-orgasm-for-men/
I’m interested to read your experiences on this. I feel it could be similar to the female g-Spot orgasm in the sense that it’s more often very satisfying and intense as a blended experience, but not necessarily everyone‘s cup of tea by itself. I wish I had more experience to offer. Thanks for sharing.
I am wondering if I am maybe trying too hard. I get spasms that get intense but they dont seem to go anywhere. Maybe I need to relax more and just let it happen. I havent got hard doing this so far either so it seems different to the way others describe it. But I am just starting off so lots to learn and try out yet. I get a bit worried I might blow a blood vessel in my neck or something though lol as the pressure in my face/neck etc gets quite intense.
I am sure that must be just trying too hard lol.
By what you have just described yes you are trying too hard.There is a brilliant article on the interwebz about anal orgasm, unfortunately posting outside links are not allowed. I would strongly suggest you google the subject and read the techniques and experiences of people, who can climax via anal play.
It is not an art form per sae, it is just knowing what works when and how.
I actually had my first anal orgasm last night, all be it a small one. My wife wanted me to video as I fucked myself with a dildo so I got out our new Uprize 6" dildo. After having some fun bouncing up and down on it I stuck it to the shower wall to push back on it. It was pointed up so wasn't particularly aimed at my prostate but as the tip is bulbous compared to the shaft it turned out to be the perfect position to fill me and rub against my prostate. It didn't take long and I suddenly felt like I was going to pee. My legs went weak and although I didn't have that usual climax point you get with a traditional orgasm I did get this intense feeling of pleasure in my ass. I also produced a single, but large, blob of cum. After that each thrust onto the dildo felt amazing and I was moaning and swearing like crazy it felt so good! It take long after with a little masturbation to have a traditional climax as well and I produced more cum than normal. Amazing fun and I had videos it all for me wife and me to re-watch after. Ended up with me going down on her and using a toy at the same time and making her cum and then we had sex, although I didn't manage to cum as my whole body still felt drained from earlier.
Well this morning I woke up hard and tried to massage from the outside using my fingers only. I pressed in between strotum and anus and felt the walnut like spongy lump. Initially I was pushing too hard and hearing what others have said I just started stroking it gently. Before I knew it I was super hard and thought my god this is actually happening!
A few seconds after I starting getting the same contraction/spasm I had with the Aneros Helix Trident. I kept going but lost it a bit. I managed to get the spasm back again a minute later but it didnt progress any further. I felt really hot in the face and neck again, spasm gripped me and I felt really hard but that was it, and it never got any further.
But it was so amazing knowing I can get to that point now with external massage only. My body mustbe starting to program. I just need to get past that point though now and actually orgasm.
I will have to try to relax a lot more and not push it I think.
Today I tried the Trident, along with my wifes vibrator touching it and on the prostate externally, to generate some vibrations to the prostate. I also tried the vibrator in bum next to prostate now that I know how it needs to feel that is easier to achieve.
Still same results - lots of lovely powerful contractions and spasms that left me fairly breathless a few times, a few drops of pre-cum, but nothing that I would call an orgasm and no streaming pre-cum etc.
I did really shoot out the sperm later when masturbating though so that was very nice! I will keep experimenting lol.
I wonder if I am just not wired up for prostate orgasms.
Or maybe I am having orgasms already, I certainly look exactly like a woman looks when she orgasms lol. I dont get sequential waves though but the spasms do last for 30 seconds or so. Maybe I am just expecting too much? But it is said that you will know when you orgasm. Problem is I dont know how it should feel. Its certainly more intense than masturbation and ejaculation thats for sure.