I find these days, just looking at toys and talking about positions with my boyfriend gets me really horny within seconds. I never used to be like this, it usually took porn to get me off.
What gets you turned on instantly? (without physical touching)
The best thing is, when i know i am going to see my OH at night time, the texts we send throughout the day, letting each other know what is going to happen when we finally get our hands on each other... thats what gets me going! xx
It doesn't take much. The smell of my OH's hair or perfume. Hugging gets me in trouble sometimes too (just the OH hugging though lol). Seeing her bum with/without clothes. Starring into eyes and smiles. Gee I'm a softy, well a hard softy.
Well whenever I see my other half I rise to the occasion without any further stimuli. Then again we only see each other a couple of times a week so that could be why.
Probably smell, I'm obsessed with smelling things.
I love smells. A sweaty man (not "I haven't showered in days" sweat, just fresh stuff) will just make me melt, it's amazing. Have freaked more than a few guys out by just sniffing them everywhere, I love it. Although weirdly, things like the smell of burning wood also have a bit of an effect, anything kind of sharp or spicy-ish, or that heat-smell (yay summer!), just makes me want to get all sweaty too!
Probably smell, I'm obsessed with smelling things.
I love smells. A sweaty man (not "I haven't showered in days" sweat, just fresh stuff) will just make me melt, it's amazing. Have freaked more than a few guys out by just sniffing them everywhere, I love it. Although weirdly, things like the smell of burning wood also have a bit of an effect, anything kind of sharp or spicy-ish, or that heat-smell (yay summer!), just makes me want to get all sweaty too!
Smell gets me, I'm not sure if it turns me on, but the smell of my bf's neck if he hasn't showered for the day (so its his natural smell) makes me feel so giddy =]
I read into this a few years ago, but the only link I can find is this New York Times piece -http://www.nytimes.com/2006/05/16/health/16lesb.html right now. It goes into the science of sexuality in terms of hormonal smells but doesn't say much about the synthetic side of things unless it's attempting to flog a product.
I'm sure I read a piece somewhere that advised that the natural scent of a man was only attractive/arousing to a woman if she was ovulating. Not sure about that. :S
I seen a study once where women tried to rate the attractiveness of a man based purely on the smell of their sweaty shirt. If I recall right the more genetically diverse the women from the man the sexy his sweaty clothes smelled to him. I presume it's a pheromone thing that detects which potential partner would give the fittest offspring.
Sometimes perfume can get me horny (as long as it is not overbearing) - A few times I've walked past a woman and I get a whiff of the scent and I get turned on ....
Im more of a hormone motivated horny person! I can be turned on buy a simple suggestion one day and the next I have no interest in sex at all. Its taken a while to work the cycle out but we make the most of the horny hormones now.