So what is a slut? The term slut was used to describe a prostitute or immoral woman. In the dictionary it says a girl who has many sexual partners without emotion. People use the term slut (as slut shaming) to a girl just because of her sexuallity and what she enjoys. Some say it for to revealing clothing… etc.
To me a Slut is a girl who is not ashamed of her sexuallity. She knows what she likes when it comes to sex and owns it. Shes proud of her body and the pleasure it gives and receives. This can be a woman who only has 1 partner or it can be a woman who has multiple partners.
So as you see i take the term differently. I am a slut im proud to be one. I love sex and sexual things. I have a very high sexdrive. I have expermented with many things and know what i like and I own it. Not shy about sex and what i like. I know some peope may judge (maybe not here but you get what i mean), but i dont care. You gotta accept and love yourself and be who you are. Im bisexual in an open relationship (with another girl). I have multiple friend with benefits (girls and guy). We also swing and visit a swing / sex club. I enjoy one night stands. I enjoy sex with multiple people and also enjoy 3somes and some more group. I sometimes like to dress a bit revealing. Im an exhibitionist. Im a dancer in a strip club. All this but doesnt mean im easy or will have sex with anyone. Im still choosy but still have had many sexual partners. So yes i concider myself a slut. Do you think so?
Thats true and thats the derive from the term slut. I just dont personally look at it that way. Ill take the term proudly. Definitely much better when the girl is proud and knows what she wants.
Good question, I think the descriptor “Slut” is a product of social conditioning, training people to look down on certain behaviours that tweak the sensibilities of a certain social grouping, as long as there is no damage done I think a"Slut" just enjoys their body and using as it was intended, some of us don’t have the confidence that SlutElisa420 clearly has, I could quite easily be a man Slut, and I think I would like that Moniker…
Thanks for the feedback. Thats a good point tou made. Confident is part of it but it didnt come at a snap of a finger. I progressed little by little the more things i experienced.
I’m all for empowerment, but, I’ve been called a slut before, by my own biological mother, and it was not at all empowering for me. So, whilst I fully understand and support why it may empower some, for me, it’s a “no-no” word that comes with painful memories of abuse. Each to their own of course, but both my partners know not to use it with me.
Thats true. The context does say alot. I just dont let the ones who want to shame get to me. Other than that I like to be called that and call myself that. Sexually free is a good way to put it too.
The use of the word ‘slut’ has been used as a derogatory term for women for so long it has become an unacceptable term to use.
I would be reluctant to call you a ‘slut’ @SlutElisa420 as I would not want it to be misunderstood.
From your description and posts I’ve read, you are a strong minded woman who enjoys her sexuality and sex life.
Good for you, long may it continue
Thats true it has mostly been of use in a derogatory way. I aim to change the view to empowerment. I dont misunderstand when seeing or hearing the context. I am strong minded and know what i like and enjoy my sexuallity and sex life.
Not the sort of word to use on someone you don’t know because you cant judge the intended inference, the closest parallel I can make is the banter we enjoy here in the UK.
@SlutElisa420 Hats off to you for embracing your sexuality and knowing what you want in terms of sex and pleasure. I think it’s a bit ridiculous to call a woman a slut just because she enjoys sex and the pleasure she can get from her own body. Embrace it and have fun.
I 100% agree if a woman wants to fuck 10 guys so she has a variety go for it variety is the spice of life, thats like calling me gay because I like anal play ive never been with and have no intention of being with a guy .same same but different
I see a slut as someone who’s happy to sleep around, not necessarily someone who’s sexually empowered…
I would call someone this who just slept with any Tom, dick & Harry literally one after the other… the local bike?
and definitely quite a bit here.