Accepted :D
That avatar KMM, redheads .... hot hot hot hot HOOOOT. haha :)
Yay, Thank you Ste
Haha, you wern't kidding about messages Fluff, think ive had 3 already!
Joined and added a few people too, username is Stekinks if anyone wants to add me.
love Fet, I'm Miss_Purring if anyone wants to add me, please state in message your from LH xx
Crikey.....!! This thread has really come to life...! Hope too many Vanilla's aren't being corrupted - or if they are, its with their consent....!!
I have already been contacted on FL - no names....!
@KMM You will get deluged with unsolicited stuff. I posted a few pictures and got deluged with messages from people making the most strange requests. There is always the ignore option and you will find so much info and knowledge there.
Enjoy
I use Fetlife for a few reasons. First off to keep an eye on people who hire me and chat with them, (sex writing work, Domming, and even escorting).
Then there's events although a lot of the kink events I go to aren't advertised on fet often.
Thirdly to keep in touch with old friends from school and college (there's surprisingly a lot of them on there).
And finally it's a handy place to do some sex reseach.
We are on it, not for BDSM, but as a way of trying to find swinging contacts. We've been there a full year but haven't had any genuine enquiries, as we have often done on Fabswingers and SwapScene. Mostly we get messages from single men saying "I know you only want to meet couples but I'm special... etc etc."
Many people have profiles and post internet pics which they claim are them. Very odd!
Ckylon, I joined LH a few weeks ago, and I would say that it is now a huge part of my life. Since LH, I have made a kinky twitter and a fet life account. If I had not joined LH I would never have found out about fetlife and would never had made a twitter account!
chunkyg. What you said is true, It has already happened haha but like you said.... 'ignore'
Blimey... I didn't realise there were so many 'corrupted minds' out there ;) Especially on Fet.....
Interesting......yes.....veeeeery interesting! ;)
chunkyg wrote:
@KMM You will get deluged with unsolicited stuff. I posted a few pictures and got deluged with messages from people making the most strange requests. There is always the ignore option and you will find so much info and knowledge there.
Enjoy
I did not learn, until being on Fetlife for months and months, that you can actually set your pictures to "friends only" (You can choose which go public, and which can be seen by only friends) That option is available during uploading and also at any time if you go into the image, look to the right hand side of the image, where the "loves" are. Look underneath the "Loves" and there is an option called "privacy" with a drop down arrow. This is where you can change your images to friends only or for all to see. I find setting them to friends only, reduces a lot of unsolicited messages from random folks.
Hope that helps x
Thanks as always Fluffbags.......my pics are non identifiable at moment so fairly relaxed about privacy but if we decide to do face shots or videos then will absolutely take your advice and tip on board. I never thought having different names here and on fetlife would be a limitation......but it does seem to restrict the friendships etc.
I always thought Chunkydom would be a bit too specific for LH :-)