As per title,
I’ll kick off with male chastity (cock cages)
When I met my Mrs she had a cock cage in her tv unit… odd place to put it. But I was intrigued, I could barely get the thing on due to excitement the first time.
I’d love to put pegging in there too… the two often seem to go hand in hand, but she’s more confident on the chastity play for now
BDSM. With my past relationships being very abusive - physically. I totally surprised myself, that I love hubby spanking me, being tied up, and him having his hands on me. But I know it’s just that - BDSM, and not anything malicious.
Another one that surprised me - watersports
I just love him marking his territory 
having him pee on me, and taking some of it in my mouth.
Pegging -(me as a woman using a strap on to f**k my husband)
Totally hot for it
As quite a submissive I fairly recently found my pleasure in dominating and whipping a bit of a surprise and even more recently found that sucking Mrs H’s toes is way more of a turn on than I thought. I’ve always loved feet but as Mrs H is very ticklish and not a fan of feet it has only been recently that I’ve desensitised her enough to really enjoy her beautiful feet and toes.
Allowing wife to peg me, it was her idea. Also cum swapping/sharing. Surprised I like tasting and swallowing my own cum. These two kinks have really kicked our sex lives up a notch.
Watching CNC porn. Obviously the key part being the ‘C’ part.
I’ve toyed with whether I’d like to roleplay it myself, but to be honest I don’t think I would, so for now I’ll stick to occasionally watching.
After 45 years of marriage we switched to a femdom male chastity relationship and I absolutely love it.
I never thought that it would be for me but we’re both having a great time.
Pegging!
Its not even the feeling that did it for me (but still feels good!) But its how you have no control of whats happening that did it for me.
@Dirty-Wife . Oh well each to their own… that type of water sport i can’t get my head round.
Probably watersports. I tried it because I knew he’d like it. Never dreamt that I’d love it, but I do.
I never expected to enjoy chastity play as much as I do with Sexterminatrix. It’s one of those counter-intuitive things that you have to experience to understand, I suppose. Then there was pegging not long after that, which again I could not imagine NOT doing anymore; the intimacy of the act is incredible and the sensations … again, you have to experience it to understand!
Sexterminatrix is also an avid voyeur, and loves to watch me do whatever she wants. Her favourite thing is locking my balls in a spiked cage attached to a leash, which she pulls on to great effect while I use my fleshlight launch to orgasm. It’s definitely not “mainstream” sex, but it’s become one of my favourite activities to share with her.
Suffice to say, it’s amazing what a person can be into if they only give it a go!
For my OH and me that will anal fisting , pegging, cumkissing and watersports. Just by trying it we found that it we like it, they we’re unexpected turn ons
Watersports for me too, I was really against it bc of how I’ve seen it in porn. My sexual partner really wanted to try it but respected that I said no. But the seed was planted and it grew into us both loving peeing on each other and drinking it. Its incredibly sensual and intimate, if its done with that intention. Intention is everything.
Pain was a surprise. When I first started having sex, it felt like everything hurt. And when I first was with my husband, PIV was nearly impossible. Just too sensitive. I’m very much the opposite now. My female partners haven’t really adapted to it and don’t really let me have all that I want. But my husband is able to read my signals and push my body to its limit.
I got hubby a Fleslight when we had a bit of a dry spell. Thought it seemed a bit gross, but actually quite like using it on it, and as a plus, no jizz all over the place!
I do like abit of toy play, I love the Mrs hands on me but she has a smile on her face when using the toy. And as said, no mess… and I’ll be the one cleaning the inside out!
Hubby has more chance of having sex with actual Eva Lovia than he does me washing out the fleshlight haha
For the wife it’s anal. When we got together she didn’t want anything to do with it, and now she LOVES it. Genuinely.
For us it was definitely pegging! We talked about it and I was a bit unsure how I’d feel doing it but I got quite a kick from it! Now it’s something we just do!
Rimming. Oh my. Giving is just filthy, receiving is divine. Very much a kink!