What makes you confident in the bedroom?

My partner makes me feel confident

Pinkie Pie wrote:

The light off!!

I'll drink to that!

Sorry I haven't been on to reply to you guys! Been mega busy this week!

Had some great answers on here. I can be alright with myself, but sometimes it kinda slaps me in the face halfway through. Especially if I'm on top.

Low lighting....music....tasteful saucy lingerie or a decent sexy pair of crotchless boy shorts and a simple co ordinating vest top x

An understanding and respectful partner also helps if they like/love you their actions and words should help give you the confidence needed in the bedroom x

An understanding and respectful partner also helps if they like/love you their actions and words should help give you the confidence needed in the bedroom x

I have low self esteem and have little confidence in my body but slowly things are getting better

Sexy underwear and heels always makes me feel confident! :)

I want to look sexy and have any area that is still WIP covered or attention drawn away... A nice pair of heels, stockings and suspenders and a sexy teddy,stocking or baby doll to show off the best of my assets to their best๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‡
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A bit of dutch courage on initial encounters does help too๐Ÿ˜„

I always make a fool out of myself by doing silly things or making jokes which makes the mood really light and rather than a woman thinking about her body, she is thinking about me or the stuff i am doing. I feel that no one is totally happy with there body and I look at the person and his or her personality rather than the size. If they are big or wobbly as some of you put it than i got more to love as i would never go for those boney models.

The only thing you can make out of skinny models is a soup and i love my meat too much :D