I’m, how do you put it, a newbie to all of this so I only know who/what turns me on… Apologies if this has already been covered before.
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Simple… My hubby 
he doesn’t have to do much to get me excited, turned on and wet. Brushing past me grabbing my ass or slapping it, grabbing my boob’s or fondling them and whisper dirty talk in my ear. Or he’ll come up behind me presses himself against me kissing my neck and talking dirty to me. Caressing me while kissing me passionately, and massages 
sexting is another one, describe what we’re going to do to eachother later that night, get eachother all hot bothered. And photos thrown in too 
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And it’s the best 
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It really turns me on when my husband is horny, the more aroused he is, the more turned on I get 
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I am a sucker for sexting. Start off with no pictures and then build up to it. A cheeky picture then follows and I am good to go.
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I like talking and describing what we are gonna do or are currently doing if already in the heat of things. I like the build up to it happening. Though I would say my number one is her orgasm. Just knowing she is getting pleasure and feels good is my ultimate turn on.
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Pretty much anything she does at the moment.
Since I am only allowed to orgasm when she permits me to and that’s roughly every 4 weeks or so I’m in a state of constant arousal and turned on all the time.
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I just love some really sexy underwear/lingerie with stocking, the wife looks sexy in anything and massive turn on
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The sight and smell of worn panties……
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Aside from wanting to lick a gay Dom leatherman‘s boots, lol? My partner (who is not a gay leatherman) turns me on when he initiates sexual activity and uses toys on me, especially outdoors. It’s a nice change as I have traditionally been the initiator in our relationship.
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Hey newbie! 
Porn usually turns me on but also my dreams at night do too and most importantly the one someone who I really fancy and want a relationship with does as well but that’s a whole complicated kettle of fish!
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Yeah, often the two are completely different…
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Indeed! 
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Ooh! That sounds interesting @AJSTAR, have you made any moves?
As for what turns me on … pretty much anything at the moment! 
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Ditto. Low sex drive for years. Within a few weeks of separating from my husband, BOOOOM!!! I’m also having very inappropriate thoughts about a bloke I’ve known for years and see as a big brother…
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Wife always turns me on.
However, the usual day to day turn ons for me include most things butt related. See anyone with a sexy butt - mostly women but ocassional guy of a certain body type = turned on in some way or another.
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That is a somewhat ever changing answer . It is amazing what will get me going . A super nicely dresses woman , not necessarily sexy . A pretty face , but beautiful eyes can really warm me up . Confidence and a voice . Some times sweet talk with my wife , other times down and dirty talk . A lite caress , gentle kiss . Varying kinds of porn , often I will sample something out of my wheelhouse and am surprised how horny it can make me . OH , almost forgot flirting , though after retirement my flirt buddies I no longer see .
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Lots turns me on but the biggest is scent as in worn clothing, luckily I still have a bra from my ex that still smells of her perfume, I’m so surprised there is still scent coming from it as its been two years actually probably longer when she actually gave it to me.
I love to inhale the scent which turns me on, the good thing is I don’t associate the bra and scent with my ex.
Panties obviously gives me a big turn on especially with juices on them.
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So far not had the joy of meeting them yet thanks to the plague! But I’ve defo made very clear my feelings for them and over the months/year sent them many a bouquet of flowers and cards to let them know I’m thinking of them 
which they’ve loved.
Haha yes I go through phases too when everything makes me want to pounce on it 
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