what position do you prefer being tied up in for bondage
New to trying new positions and interested from the guys perspective also as well as females.
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As the female being tied up, i think it depends. Sometimes im on my belly restrained by ankles and wrists to the under mattress restraints. Sometimes on my back with my thighs restrained and my legs up. It may be stood up with my hands behind my back or legs and wrists taped to a chair. We have a massage bed so i love being bound to that with chain. We currently have some custom straps being made with labia clamps on which i cant wait to get.
The only restriction really is your imagination. Just make sure you look at safety with whatever you choose. The risks are different dependant on what materials your using, what positions your doing, tightness, personal limits etc. Its always worth having a safe word. You can enhance your bondage with gags and blindfolds also fo heighten the experience, or noise cancelling headphones etc. Make sure your talk before doing stuff like this though beforehand. Sensory deprivation can be quite extreme if your not expecting it.
Mental bondage is always really hot. For example, he will tell me to put my hands behind my head and dont move them no matter what, otherwise there will be consequences. We are in a D/s dynamic so this could mean if i move there could be spankings, orgasm denial etc, so the concentration that goes into making sure i do as im told is overwhelming. Its very very hot.
Hope that gives you some ideas. I could go on for ages though 
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Hi @sarahlo8383 , you may want to edit your post to keep it in line with the forum rules: posts should be open to everyone, not aimed at one group of people 
Also as a female partner who tends to get tied up, my husband prefers me tied to the bed feet apart, hands together. Why hands together? Because it implies I have made a choice. I could let myself free at any moment if I wanted to, but since I haven’t, it tells him that I’m enjoying myself.
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Oh I didn’t know will do thank you xx
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I’m not the female but I’m the one being tied up.
She tends to favour me being tied like a starfish to the under-mattress restraints or hung by my wrists from the overhead spreader bars
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We have a underbed restraint system and I prefer to be on my back spread eagle. Have done this with a blindfold and earbuds in and I found it to be completely different experience where every touch feels more intense.
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That’s easy. Her, behind me and going hard while I’m the one that’s tied up.
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A dominant one! 
our 2 favourite ones are in no order
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thighs to wrist laid on her back -
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/handcuffs-restraints/wrist-ankle-restraints/p/bondage-boutique-soft-wrist-to-thigh-cuffs/a30763g52078.html -
Doggy style using this set
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/handcuffs-restraints/wrist-ankle-restraints/p/purple-reins-body-harness-with-wrist-and-thigh-restraint/a40388g73805.html
Both allow my wife to be submissive and allow me to tease her using her toys etc
sometimes we use a spreader bar as well
She also likes to be kneeling on the floor, spreader bar in place with her hands tied behind her, blindfold on while I cum on her boobs or face…
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Thank you, very helpful and thanks for the links
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