what position do you prefer being tied up in for bondage
New to trying new positions and interested from the guys perspective also as well as females.
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As the female being tied up, i think it depends. Sometimes im on my belly restrained by ankles and wrists to the under mattress restraints. Sometimes on my back with my thighs restrained and my legs up. It may be stood up with my hands behind my back or legs and wrists taped to a chair. We have a massage bed so i love being bound to that with chain. We currently have some custom straps being made with labia clamps on which i cant wait to get.
The only restriction really is your imagination. Just make sure you look at safety with whatever you choose. The risks are different dependant on what materials your using, what positions your doing, tightness, personal limits etc. Its always worth having a safe word. You can enhance your bondage with gags and blindfolds also fo heighten the experience, or noise cancelling headphones etc. Make sure your talk before doing stuff like this though beforehand. Sensory deprivation can be quite extreme if your not expecting it.
Mental bondage is always really hot. For example, he will tell me to put my hands behind my head and dont move them no matter what, otherwise there will be consequences. We are in a D/s dynamic so this could mean if i move there could be spankings, orgasm denial etc, so the concentration that goes into making sure i do as im told is overwhelming. Its very very hot.
Hope that gives you some ideas. I could go on for ages though 
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Hi @sarahlo8383 , you may want to edit your post to keep it in line with the forum rules: posts should be open to everyone, not aimed at one group of people 
Also as a female partner who tends to get tied up, my husband prefers me tied to the bed feet apart, hands together. Why hands together? Because it implies I have made a choice. I could let myself free at any moment if I wanted to, but since I haven’t, it tells him that I’m enjoying myself.
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Oh I didn’t know will do thank you xx
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I’m not the female but I’m the one being tied up.
She tends to favour me being tied like a starfish to the under-mattress restraints or hung by my wrists from the overhead spreader bars
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We have a underbed restraint system and I prefer to be on my back spread eagle. Have done this with a blindfold and earbuds in and I found it to be completely different experience where every touch feels more intense.
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That’s easy. Her, behind me and going hard while I’m the one that’s tied up.
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A dominant one! 
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our 2 favourite ones are in no order
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thighs to wrist laid on her back -
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/handcuffs-restraints/wrist-ankle-restraints/p/bondage-boutique-soft-wrist-to-thigh-cuffs/a30763g52078.html -
Doggy style using this set
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/handcuffs-restraints/wrist-ankle-restraints/p/purple-reins-body-harness-with-wrist-and-thigh-restraint/a40388g73805.html
Both allow my wife to be submissive and allow me to tease her using her toys etc
sometimes we use a spreader bar as well
She also likes to be kneeling on the floor, spreader bar in place with her hands tied behind her, blindfold on while I cum on her boobs or face…
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Thank you, very helpful and thanks for the links
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Usually she is laying on her back. Ankles and wrists secured with under the mattress restraints. Usually strapped tight restricting most of her movements of her extremities. Her body is willfully granted to me as my playground. Only her speaking safeword, frees her I’ve also restraind her loosely, so she can release herself, or touch me if she chooses. She has also restraind face down and ass up, in the same manor. Ive had her wrists only cuffed tied behind her back.
When im the one restrained, she uses the same under mattress restraints. Fastening my wrists and ankles in the same manor.
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Sexterminatrix and I much prefer me being the one tied up.
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Face down arse up, wrists strapped to thighs, close to knees, spreader bar by the ankles. Fully in submission, and we take turns, who’s restrained and who’s in charge.
Why should it be just the female partner? I prefer hubby to be stood up, arms up and restrained from above. That way i have access to both front and back. With him blindfold on so he does not know what i am going to do next.
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Sounds lovely.
Sounds absolutely lovely. Lucky guy.
Her favorite position is to be on her knees hands tied behind her back. Those restraints are tied to her legs. Nipple clamps, and a ball gag are added to her. The other position is with her on her hands and knees spreader bar in place hands tied. Extra weights on her nipple clamps. Those are our favorite two.,
My favorite is hogtied face down hands just above their bottom. I use cuffs so the rope can be thread through them. That lets me decide how far up or down I want their legs to allow me easy access to their bottom so I can spank or cane
I will alternate tieing her hair and connecting connecting it to their wrist restraints or do a face tie that connects to their collar.