Evening all! Was talking to a friend about this today and wondered what you lovely people all thought!
There’s so many different things out there to try, it’s almost impossible to try them all! Who knows, maybe your new favourite thing to do in bed is something you’ve yet to try
What kink or other thing do you think everyone should try to spice things up in the bedroom? Bonus points if it’s uncommon/underrated!
I’ll go first, it’s definitely not an uncommon but I still think that not enough people try it. I think everyone should try Anilingus at least once. It’s super intimate and you’ll feel so much closer to your partner afterwards (in my opinion).
I think wax play is quite underrated. Its seen as quite tame and not sexual but its amazing. I feel a huge connection betwwen my and hubby when we use wax and not only the putting it on but the taking it off and cleaning me up. I recommend it to anyone!
I’ve always thought that wax play sounds absolutely amazing! The idea of the warm heat and sting from the wax sounds very sexy. I’ve yet to try it but I’ve read many amazing things! What does wax play look like for you? Do you use a candle or is there other methods? (:
We use candles made specifically for the body. We use it more for sensation play. Its a very intimate time. We have the lights down low and if were using uv candles, we will have the uv lights on as well. We will sometimes involve the violet wand also which is great in the low lighting and always have softer music on rather than the heavier stuff we listen to through impact and fear scenes. Oh and we have a greay knife, specifically designed for removing wax, but it feels great on the body!
I’d have to say sploshing.
We just love it. It’s so utterly stupid, requiring a total loss of any inhibition and, because of that, it’s very liberating and bonding. It’s also very tactile and can be quite sensual and erotic depending what you use. And then again it can be incorporated in to BDSM/humiliation play as well.
Everyone should try it at least once
Oh for sure! Sploshing is super sexy, I also love the taboo of it “you shouldn’t play with your food” really adds to it! Can also be quite erotic eating it off after
I love it when my wife rubs my cock on her pussy.
She will sometimes use my dick as a kind of a sex toy.
The feeling of sliding around there - and the visual - is electric.
Honestly just destroys me … in the best possible way x
I would say maybe cum play or bondage. It feels intimate to trust your partner to tie you up, blindfold, etc. we even tried noise cancelling headphones with a blindfold and that was pretty wild….
I agree with this, blindfolds and noise cancelling headphones are amazing fun, especially when playing audio erotica through them.
It especially helps if you’re new to bondage and sensory play, it means the bottom can’t see the top fumbling with a toy or thinking about what to do next. That moment of suspense the bottom feels when the top isn’t doing anything….when really the top is hobbling round after stubbing their toe on the bed!!!
Mine which I’m still exploring is a solo kink
It’s self piss play
I’ve been all the way so to speak peeing all over my own stomach chest face and in my hair and mouth and drunk my pee
I’ve also tentatively done some cam with a guy watching me pee over my belly
Next step is to cam with one of my regular guys so he can see me peeing over my face and in my mouth
Yes! We also get a kick from the idea of “accidentally” spilling food on each other and consequently trashing whatever we’re wearing. It’s usually just lingerie or underwear although I did once ambush OH before she had a chance to properly strip off and ended up totally ruining her office attire from that day at work.
Didn’t start out that way but she was getting so in to it that when I asked if she wanted to pause to get undressed before we really went for it she just replied with “No don’t stop!…Just pour it on me before I change my mind!”. (I think she was just at ‘that’ point hence didn’t want to stop )
And so it went from her outfit being in need of a simple hot wash to being wrecked and only fit for the bin
The idea that she was so completely abandoned to the idea and literally couldn’t stop was what made it so incredibly sexy.
I think being tied up on the bed with a blindfold on and having your partner tease all your senses . I die for lite caress , very lite touch , kisses all over . Massages all over and with hands or other body parts . Scent , for me maybe a wet finger straight from her pussy . I also go crazy for cool , cold touch , especially nipple and cock . Not so much of a kink , but a sensuous expansion of love making sexual fun .
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