Me and my partner often use a plug in wand, however it seem to be having less of an affect on her, sometimes either she doesn’t orgasm or it takes ages.
Can anyone recommend other toys that might work better/quicker? She prefers clit stimulation vs dildo/vibrator etc
Hey @GMB1980 welcome to the forum 
I have one question, how often does she use it?
I found the more I used my wands (mains and rechargeable) over time they can become less effective. I’ll swap between a wand and then my Womanizer - I always try and switch things up 
Why not take a break with the toys and see if feeling comes back naturally. We only use a mini wand but after a 4 week break from all sexual activity she was much easier to get off and orgasm without toys.
@Stacy2 Stacy2hi there is have hitachi and the love honey wand plus several vibrators i change between them all but I do love my wands what about you
Hey, I only have a few @AWB1955 
It’s easier if I link my collection and you can have a look here under toys/wands. And I have been looking at the Hitachi wand and the Doxy purple die cast - still undecided at which is better. I’m tempted to get them both 
Hi yes would be nice to see your toy collection the hitachi has only 2 speeds but both are very powerful i sometimes struggle to hold it on the highest speed on my clit
Yeah I spotted that when reading some reviews. The doxy has 8 so I’d probably favourite that over the Hitachi - plus I read some not so great reviews about the newer version.
I’ve heard a few people say that or find it hard to hold the bigger wands. That’s why I always recommend the Deluxe Rechargeable Mini Wand as it has enough power and is more comfortable when holding.
And I only ever use the highest settings on all my wands, and I find myself wanting more power even with the mains wand (I’m probably not normal at this point 
)
Hi can you link your toys i find the love honey wand slightly difficult to nude as it’s a scroolnwheelmwhere as the hitachi has a rocker type switch. O love power but sometimes I get sensative. I am.looking for a new toy can’t decide between o suction toy or a very.powerfill wand with a number of settings
If you click here
Then tap where it says ► Stacy’s collection
It should drop down my whole collection.
Just click toys and then wands.
And I love my Suction toys
Thank you how doyou fin a suction toy to a wand or a vibrators I am tempted to get a suction toy but not sure how they work
Omg you do have a lovely collection I see you have the lh wand what the black one with gold chains I love the look of the big pink dildo I love a good one
I mostly use my wands for solo play. I really do like my Next during sex. My first experience of suction toys was the popular Womanizer Pro40.
I was very skeptical of the whole concept, but I’m so glad I got one. I can’t really compare them, other than the suction toys are much more gentle. Both achieve intense O’s.
Yeah I have the white LH older model and white newer model. I miss the scroll wheel on the older one 
(it started making funny noises, so I stopped using it) And the replacement 2.0 just isn’t the same.
Thank you. Its not the biggest collection but I’m happy with it. I love my heart dildo that much I haven’t tried any different ones apart from my new glass one. You should try one or a Suction toy 
The Doxy #3 wand i have has an insane amount of power on max, it’s very impressive. Hands down the most powerful toy we own. The lowest speed it has if often already ore than what most toys offer on max.
That said, complete fail for my wife - a she only loves the toys on minimum power, so the Doxy buzzes her off in 1mn, then she can’t take anymore clit stimulation without having come 1st.
That’s what I’m looking for in a new one. Do you have any other wands? I’m trying to get a comparison for the ones I have, vs the purple Doxy.
I found one review/comparison online which mentions the Lovehoney mains wand and Doxy and it wasn’t very good so I’ve held off till I find more reviews and opinions.
Mixing it up is a good call toys like the peach 
and the ROMP Football are good cheap alternatives and the womaniser next can be stratospheric but have you also tried toys while also having sex.
We have the mantric wand, and the we-vibe wand #1.
We dont use the mantric wand, too powerful for my wife’s sensitive clit again.
The Doxy #3 is a hell of a lot more intense than both of those. I can get a decent amount of pleasure from the Doxy wand on my penis, the other wands aren’t powerful enough for me (yet too powerful for my wife, except the we-bine which has an excellent range of low to high speeds).
Mrs W here …..
“What’s better than a plug in wand?”
2 plug-in wands…..
The first time I tried it I think was last year (or year before) when I was alone one evening ….. held one between my thighs and the other in my hands ….. takes a while to get a working system, but once you do, get ready……. doesnt half rattle the fillings in your teeth…… and your ovaries….. really blew my mind….. now usual practice for Pen and I …… xxx
My fiancée mostly prefers clitoral stimulation. She has a toy similar to this one.
It literally makes her climax in less than 60 seconds!
@Stacy2 Hi thanks for you reply. I am interested in a suction toy but there are so many it’s difficult tp choose which one plus I am very sensitive
I have also been thinking of the new lovehoney wand as I have had mine for some time.
Any recommendations on the new one or other pus suction toys would be appreciated
Hi @GMB1980
Welcome to the forum!
Like @Stacy2 , I absolutely recommend a GOOD suction toy to compliment a wand. It’s a totally different sensation, so if your wife has become too used to the wand, a suction toy will completely switch it up.
Here are my reviews of the Next and the Melt 2 and I can’t recommend getting one if these highly enough. My personal favourite is the Melt but I think different shape clits favour different suction toys. There is a reason why the premium ones often pair with the pemium price, though. Any questions not answered in my reviews, please feel free to ask.
Another very effective clit toy is the Zumio E, which I haven’t reviewed yet, but really need to. This thing is really easy to use and soooo powerful. It’s not like a regular buzzy vibrator, it oscillates. You’d think that wouldn’t be that different and it’s hard to describe the difference but it doesn’t numb like a buzzy vibe does. Don’t set it too high and touch your vlit though as you’ll leap out the window if you’re not prepared! 