Something you learned that you wish you’d known sooner.
I wish I’d known earlier that being open about what you enjoy isn’t awkward and realising that slowing things down often makes everything better, not worse.
Mrs W here …..
Best piece of advice I received was to talk, make relevant noises or use movements to find what the other person wants ….. if both do this, both should get what they enjoy ….. xx
I’m not weird for enjoying some of the kinkier things I’m in to, and there are others out there who are also into the same things. It’s not ‘only for porn’.
Talk to each other and discuss what you want sexually …
My pleasure is his greatest pleasure. I was always a giver, I always focused on helping my partner get off. I forgot that the right partner for me wants me to get off too and even loves it when I do.
A guy I used to work with, I was actually his apprentice, Once said (In a strong Belfast accent) “Look son nobody, has ever laid on their deathbed and said Oh! Ive had too much sex” ![]()
When performing oral on the clitoris, draw the letters of the alphabet from A to Z with your tongue.
I’ll have to try that one this weekend!
Can never have too much sex ![]()
Exactly. When you respond to each others bodies it becomes incredible and amazing for both.
Totally, for instance if you like having something in your ass, say so, talk about it
Talk and be honest, be honest and talk.
If you don’t tell nobody knows.
If you don’t listen you won’t know.
Teach each other, learn from each other and enjoy.
My first love taught me how to properly eat out a woman. The most valuable lesson about making love ever…
Talk about what you both want sexually and that is ok to be who you are.
My wife thought me that it is totally ok to be bisexual/bicurious and that there is nothing weird about it, because I always considered myself straight.
Talking can be the greatest aphrodisiac.
Go for a wee afterwards… OK not exactly Keats but hey!