We are new to pegging in fact having bought all the equipment we are only at the butt plug stage at present however we are slowly working our way up to using our new strap on soon.
When I discussed pegging with my oh she suggested we research it and after a lot of reading, especially LH forum she thought that the role reversal would be the biggest turn on followed by the power shift in who is penetrating who! She really gets off on the initiating of this type of sex and I have to tell you it's a big turn on to see a different side of her.
We are new to pegging in fact having bought all the equipment we are only at the butt plug stage at present however we are slowly working our way up to using our new strap on soon.
When I discussed pegging with my oh she suggested we research it and after a lot of reading, especially LH forum she thought that the role reversal would be the biggest turn on followed by the power shift in who is penetrating who! She really gets off on the initiating of this type of sex and I have to tell you it's a big turn on to see a different side of her.
How I find getting the best out of it for both of you is keeping the communication open, taking it slow and testing what you like and working it up.
My favourite thing about pegging with my OH is the sheer enjoyment he gets from it and being able to give him as much pleasure as I can. It's a nice turn of the tables to hear him being the one moaning my name! I guess in a way it's nice to be the one 'in control' in a sense (but knowing when it's a bit much and slowing down).
We normally use a strap-on harness from SportsSheets (a lovely red lacy number, which is super comfy for the lady, and very sexy), but it's also nice sometimes to just use the toys without as a change.
-N.