Thanks @Craig1234! You’re actually the one who made me think about using a wand on my hubby 
https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/new-to-the-forum/272177/17?u=pkh
When I used my bullet on him the one time, he acted like it didn’t do much for him, but I don’t know if he was just being shy about it… I want to to make it really good for him 