I’m always interested in hearing what other people swear by 
Have only ever used toys with my partner present, either watching or participating. I like using my clit sucker when he is inside me in doggy or if he has a dildo inside me when we are lying down head to toe. Another toy I have is a clit sucker and g spot vibrator, which he watches me use but he has to be careful if he tries to kiss me as I can thrash about a bit when I orgasm and he has had the occasional headbutt I am lucky that I am multi orgasmic so dont find the need to go solo as such as I can go a few days without.