This is my first posting so please be gentle 
I have been married for almost 6 years and during that time my wife and I have very, very slowly started to explore bondage within our sexual relationship. It has always been a very significant part of my sexual identity - although not something that I have expressed in any of my previous relationships - and it is something that my wife is "growing into" as we gradually work out what does and does not turn her on.
My wife really enjoys being spanked (with my hand or a paddle) on the bottom and I discovered recently that she also enjoys having her breasts spanked. However, I have a concern that a standard paddle was really too heavy and imprecise to use effectively without injury, and I was sufficiently concerned to hold back which in turn made the sound very lacklustre.
Can anybody advise what toys/props would be good for breast spanking? (I had thought of trying a 30cm ruler or a small, light wood spoon but I don't know whether that would be too much/too little/risky.) Also, are there good/bad areas of the breast to focus on/avoid? I know that I can obviously get feedback from my wife but I feel I want to do some background research and get the benefit of others' experience, as well :)
Blueeyes82 wrote:
as i have big jubblies but like having them spanked, i found that using crops was the best type of tool.
try these:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21802
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15823
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28904
+1. Crops ate extremely precise. Especially if you want to get just her nipples.
A wooden spoon or ruler like you've suggested would be fine I think! What kind of paddle are you usually spanking her with? The Bettie Page range has a nice light round one that might work out for you.
There are a lot of people I know who enjoy a flogger on their boobs as they can mix between soft strokes to thuddy whacks.
Crops, canes and small floggers are great for more precise hits.
Thank you Blueeyes82, Subdom27, sleepycelia, Lady Ness, and Purring-Pussy for your comments and suggestions, it's much appreciated - and apologies that I have taken so long to respond - I was expecting to get an e-mail notification from Love Honey about postings but I didn't and I've only just checked the forum again this morning!
Blueeyes82 - I think my wife might like the look of the small, heart shaped crops so I might order one of those!
sleepycelia - I'll take a look at the Bettie Page range which I haven't heard about before, so thank you for the recommendation.
Lady Ness - that's an interesting point about the flogger - we haven't tried a flogger before. What type of sensation does it create?