Sum Sub wrote:
Fluffs - so you need the thoughts to be in the right place to go from A(nal) to O(ral)? might I also suggest a flannel and soap?
Lol! The more I talk to you, the more I understand the posts on your blog!
You should be renamed cheeky sub! :P
Life's dull if you do everything people expect of you.
everything about girls form turns me on, the shape, the curves, the legs, bum, boobs, voice, laugh, hair, the eyes, always the eyes if that little sparkle is there then BOOM!
I love girls...
face, boobs and butt especially butt :)
Cheeks and cheeks.
Cheekbones are definitely the first thing I'll notice in someone.
Personality, Intellect, Piercings!
Yep it's the whole package for me... Red has a good point, cheekbones always add something for me as well.
Love curves! The curvier the better, and love big boobs! I'm definitely a boob man!
very difficult question,lots of things really,the biggest turn on has to be the sexy wink before bed which suggests more than a kiss and cuddle is on the cards. Makes it quite difficult to concentrate lol
LadyS wrote:
Fluffbags wrote:
Sum Sub wrote:
I find it interesting that your turn ons are physical! I always thought women were about the mind!LadyS wrote:
CVR92 wrote:
the inexperience and thought of touching a girl intimately... seems naughty!
Ooh CVR92, you should try it, you are missing out, very nice indeed and very naughty if done right, lol.
In answer to the question, pretty much everything. I'd love to post an extract from one of my stories, but it's way too long, a shame because it's the best description i have of what I love about all women. I especially love tattooed ladies, and ladies that have a bit of an edge to them, dreads/piercings etc. But I wouldn't discriminate all ladies are welcome and enjoyed ;)
I think when we say women's arousal is in the mind - this is true, but not quite literal. We mean that it starts in the mind.....that we need our thoughts to be in the right place to get from A to O, that we are great at creating elaborate fantasies and often need to, to keep the arousal building (as opposed to thinking nothing and just feeling physical touching) However, although we need our mind to be on board and thinking the right kind of thoughts, women still get aroused by physical touching (otherwise we would all be thinking ourselves off) visual stimulation (otherwise what would we be imagining? If we have never seen a naked body, another persons orgasm etc...we want to watch him tense up, or reach orgasm or...you get the idea) And auditory...we loveee hearing the moans and the sighs.
So yeah...its like our minds can make or break our arousal with ease...so this area is of most importance.....but we still need all the other stuff too.
It's the same for a man. There are many men who need to fantasise or need to be in the right head space for sex....but from what I notice, there are many more men who can still get from A to O based purely on physical, than there are women. Its like for us, the mind part is stronger.
Oh I am not making sense! I hate that! lol
I think that makes perfect sense Fluffbags. I think with my imagination, which i put into my writing, all I need is the right image and my mind goes into overdrive. So I guess using the tattoos as an example, if I see a woman with tattoos my mind is drawn to tracing the lines of those tattoos, with my fingers, my kisses etc. So it's not necessarily the pure physical appearance of the tattoos it's what they make me want to do, which is of course in the mind.
Fluffy spot on for me understand fully.
LadyS I agree. For me at our stage in our sexual journey the mind is the biggest sexual organ. How my Wife and I think what we can do for and with each other is so so horny.