I don’t necessarily mean the most expensive piece, or the one that looked the most impressive. I mean the one that stayed with you.
Maybe it was the first thing that actually fit properly, or something you bought on a whim and ended up wearing all the time. Or even if it surprised you by changing how you felt in your own skin.
Was there a particular bra set, body, babydoll, corset, or even a pair of stockings that shifted something for you?
What was it, and why do you still remember it? 
Has to be just plain full back nylon panties. On me, on her or just in hand. If I’m searching for something to add to the moment or just to feel good, it’s that style panties.
We bought 3 pairs before Lovehoney discontinued them but use them all the time as they look amazing and feel great - they are Coquette Darque Wet Look and Lace Hot Pants(first bought October 2017 and again in January 2019 )
It was a pair of crotchless knickers similar to this: Lovehoney Black Lace-Back Knickers - as we hadn’t really embarked on an oral sex journey until that point, but she looked so hot in this I couldn’t resist, and we haven’t looked back since!
This Escante babydoll. I’ve had so many pieces of lingerie over the years and my home is spilling over with multitudes of lace, straps and colour but this is my profile photo on another social media platform and it kickstarted my online journey with it all.
It may not fit like it used to, and I’ve had many incredible sets and pieces since, but it still sits pride of place in my wardrobe.
It’s so hard to choose!
I think the thing that made the biggest impression was the first pair of holdups I bought. My boyfriend of 3 months (now husband) and I went shopping and bought my first sexy lingerie set (nothing particularly revealing, it was just the first bra and knickers set that wasn’t a t-shirt bra and cotton knickers). I didn’t tell him that I’d also bought some hold-ups (I bought them for totally unsexy reasons, I hate tights!) but I thought they would look nice with the bra set so when I tried it on for him I added the hold-ups. I was so anxious that he wouldn’t like them but his face when he saw them will always stick in my mind! 
The other important discovery was the first body I bought (I can’t remember which one it was, sorry!) I had always preferred structured, underwired, push up bras and floaty baby dolls because I thought my boobs were too small, my bum was too big and I was embarrassed by my body. The body was the opposite of what I thought I should wear, it was a sheer fabric with no structured cups, no wires and no padding.
When I tried on the body I was so shocked to see that it actually looked good on me! My boobs and bum looked in proportion and I did have a waist after all. This moment gave me the confidence to wear sheer, unstructured lingerie and I don’t feel the need to live in push up bras anymore. My husband is very happy with this, he much prefers the view with the sheer fabric! My favourite is now this one.
Body stockings. First one was my fishnet one which meant my flat-ish nipples rubbed against the holes (or sometimes peeked through!) and made me realize I loved wearing the stocking as it hid bumps that maybe I was less comfortable showing. The crotchless element made me feel brazen when I was was just going about my evenings activity or dates as I became more confident in wearing it out with my husband. Have a few and love sliding into them! Would definitely recommend!
It was a black lace body. I had bought so many expensiveoutfits that I thought fit the definition of ‘sexy’, and I felt ridiculous in them. They weren’t my style and I wasn’t comfortable in them. When I decided to try a body - it must’ve been reduced, bc I was ready to give up wearing lingerie - I felt really good in it. Now half my wardrobe is various bodies. It helps that my partner is very complimentary.
This is such a great question! It’s hard picking just one, but after much thought; this Fishnet Bodystocking - It’s soft and crotchless.
It’s probably one of the cheapest pieces of Lingerie I’ve bought but yet I still wear it very regular 
Wearing a corset for the first time when I was younger made me realize I love the feeling of my torso being held firm and laced in nice and tight. A well fitted, well made corset feels amazing for me because I have trouble holding myself up straight. Wearing one makes me feel like an Amazon. Not even for sexy times, just wearing one to dress up makes me feel good. Unfortunately well made, properly fitted corsets are hard to find and expensive, especially if you’re a larger woman.
Buying my first thongs (one blue, one black) at BHS (long defunct uk department store) in about 2002.
My red fishnet dress there’s something about fish net when you are wearing it 
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Had to be a Panache Inferno bra. Was the first bra that made me love my boobs. Held them well, made them a lovely shape. Long discontinued by Panache and more’s the pity. No bra ever lived up to it since.
Has to be the first French maid outfit I owned .seemed so naughty at the time as had been wearing sexy lingerie for years but had never got into the costume type out fits before .have since bought nurse’s and policewoman ones since but the maid one started it all and still have it now after all these years.still our favourite costume
My wife used to have these purple silky kind of pants. I like her wearing crotchless underwear but these were backless and had a little heart cut out where her bum is.
So I remember quite often when she was wearing those, and was surprised by me appearing from behind.
They eventually wore down and needed to be thrown away but I’d love to find a similar pair and get them for her.
If you can recreate a pair of pants like this LoveHoney, let me know. Would be fun to see my wife’s bum in these kind of pants again.
It has to be the Lovehoney Vintage-Inspired Push-Up Chemise Set because it was such a great fit. It gave me a perfect hour glass figure, boosted my bust perfectly. The wider shoulder straps and suspenders were comfy and looked just right on my plus size body rather than spaghetti straps that dug in.