You about to take a man home and find out he is 5 inches or below…
A… take him home and fuck him
B… buy more drink and find someone else
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It depends on his personality.
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I wouldnt as im into ladies hshaha.
If i was a woman its not all about downstairs, looks, personality, connections… ypu could always have an extender.
Also if they were a smoker no chance, it would be like kissing an ashtray.
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Same, I’m a guy and if we spin this round and there was something physical I wouldn’t normally go for in a woman this could easily be overlooked if we connected for sure.
There’s definitely more than just physical appearance that can turn me on.
I don’t see why not, if the conversation was flowing and I felt like he was a good person then penis size doesn’t really matter. Besides, penis size really doesn’t matter at all if they know how to use it!
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If I was into guys it wouldn’t matter.
If it was a woman she could have the spare front door key. But as @Tenshadesandme & @WaveyAlien say it’s about the person not the equipment that’s important
And its personal preference as to their habits, if they smoke or take drugs it’s a no thanks from me, when in comparison to the calibre of their lethal weapons in their arsenals as @Craig1234 said
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+1 for the no smokers, thanks. Also if every other word is a swear word, it’s gonna be a no from me.
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Good point, if you can’t string a sentence together without an expletive then no thank you. We are not in the army. 
The only place it’s acceptable is in the bedroom 
@Patty09 you seem to ask the same question continuously in different forms regarding penis size and if people like them usually in the 5 inch range.
I think you will find that if you look back on your older posts youre going to find the same answers over and over. 5 inches is not small. its average and most people do not care about the size and theres much more you can do other than penetrative sex. More importantly, its about someones personality, their morals, their ethics. You could have the nicest penis in the world. If your personality stinks, i couldnt care less.
I think you should probably try to stop obsessing about the size if your penis and concentrating on having fun with your partner.
I hope you dont think im being rude or nasty as thats not my intention. It just seems that you are asking the same question continuously, possibly for reassurance maybe
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Yea im bang on 6 inches and always thought its too small. Have done all my life so i do think your right in what you say X
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The thing is you cant change it so theres no point dwelling over it. My husband is about the same size as you and we have the most incredible sex life. Its nothing to do with his size, but penetration is probably the smallest part of our sex life. We can play for hours with toys and doing BDSM stuff as we are in a dynamic, teasing, doing oral (and can i add, i have been with guys with very large penis’s and when it comes to oral, an average size one is much nicer), and much much more. I dont think i have EVER worried about his size. Theres not need. 6 inches is more than ample.
From what i remember of your posts this all stemmed from a comment your wife made when she had had a drink. Correct me if im wrong. You may be worth having a chat with her and explaining that she got in your head a bit and youre struggling to get over it. Im almost certain she will put your mind at rest. It was most probably a comment made thinking it was funny or something. Maybe she didnt know how conscious you actually were deep down.
Didnt you go on then to do only fans together? The fact that she wants to do that with you should say something. I dont think youve ever mentioned swinging or opening up your relationship, so as long as she is happy with your size it shouldnt matter as she the only one that is using it.
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Thank you x
Well then you need to be reassured you’re not small, @Kh1985 is right.
I am only 5" in the best arousing conditions, often under that normally. I’ve only had a small handful of partners but all have seemed really satisfied and have never been disparaging or negative.
It is about getting people to like you and want you as a person first. Would you say someone with small breasts was inadequate if she fancied you ?
I have seen hundreds of flaccid penises as a lifelong naturist and apart from maybe 5% they are all similar. I have seen about three erect guys and two were about my size, one was about six inches but less girth than me. I don’t do porn or clubs etc, these were real life people.
Asked my other half (of 20 years) once about her previous partners, first one was a bit bigger than me. But her ex husband was “about” the same as me apparently
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Or C… run for the hills lol
Yeah I think it’s all down to his personality and how he uses it what makes all the difference as you may find below average guys are more in tune to using their dicks well than guys who’ve got bigger ones and just think that’ll do all the talking with no need for skills or efforts…
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I love your honesty. Much appreciated 
Yeah it’s a bit tedious.
Im only new here so just got into reading the posts, I can feel for patty and im probably going to do the same thing lol ask the same thing multiple times, I’ve had so many negative experiences and pretty much no positive comments.
And I am in the same boat im married and she said it was small in front of my friends during a drunken table chat
It all adds up over time and it can really mess with your head
I hear you. I have had women when I was younger not have sex with me when they felt how small I was. My wife is nice and will lie and say I am about 6 inches for the time she has shared she has gotten told I am so sorry he is so small. She has been great with me and my lack of size. Although we just recently had sex with another couple whose boyfriend is huge. We were both amazed how easily his girlfriend took it all. My wife screwed him while he was getting soft and loved being filled up by his massive cock. 9 an 7/12 for we measured it and mine. My wife and I ended up sucking him together for a few minutes. She said that was a great experience, but she loves me. We are going to have sex together again so we will see if my wife still thinks my 4.6 inches is what she wants. I hope so.
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Wow
How did you feel watching your wife take a huge cock?
Did you get to fuck his wife?
How did your wife react to his cock
I didn’t watch her much for I was giving the other woman oral or we were having anal sex. I heard her screaming in ecstasy though. It was very exciting. I love my wife and want her to be happy. I did take a few peaks with her on top taking control of the sex.
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