Thank you all for your inputs.
Spoonerism, I actually got this book, but not yet read it. I definitely will though. We also got this one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30607 and are planning to buy this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1553. Just to cover all angles, so to speak.
LilMissFrustrated, this is actually one inspiring set (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30227). Though not sure about the vibrations, but it does seem like a good value for money. I’m a bit intimidated about the circumference.
Scorpius, some of the LH guides I've read, the others were very helpful indeed.
About using fingers, we are quite reluctant to the idea I guess, and gloves would make it so “technical” and unnatural. They would however solve some issues, I very much agree, so I think if we will choose this option, we will most definitely wear them. Thank you for the tip.
David, you make a lot of sense. (I’ve been snooping around your posts and blog lately and I kind of like your mentality.)
Some of the products I was considering are (just to stay under £20 considering this is an experiment that might not go well):
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16479 – because of its tiny size;
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26072 – not because of the brand, but because of the shapes of the beads;
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16528 – because of the silicone;
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24636 – because of the inverse idea;
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16665 – for him because of a combination of silicone+small size+price (now on offer).
What would your thoughts be on these?
Just curious: does anyone know what's the percentage of those who try anal and don't like it?
And Dota, welcome on my boat! :)