A very small gape looks hot, when you can just glimpse inside a little bit, but when the orifice looks like a canyon, that's just grim. And a prolopse is simply puke inducing!
gunther wrote:
Hen Night Toad wrote:
I dont understand where childbirth comes into it tbh, seems like another topic altogether to me
If you want to see gaping ( the subject of the thread) then watch a forceps delivery, more gaping than most men can stomach, most faint or become violent. Forceps is the ultimate in gaping. But only as a medical neccessity
I'm going to echo what some others have said... this topic had nothing to do with childbirth and I don't see why you had to bring it up. A forceps delivery is not "gaping" the purpose of it is to get a baby out safely not to make a big cavernous hole and it's very weird that you would in any way relate these two topics.
Anyway... once during anal my boyfriend pulled out and said my ass gaped a little bit and he found it really hot because it showed what his dick had done. Kinda makes sense to me why that would be a turn on. I personally don't like it when it's extreme but then again I don't like anything extreme. I can see why some people would like it and fnd it a turn on.
Not a fan of fisting or anything HUGE in my bum that will cause permanent damage although I do like being stretched with plugs!
Okay okay. Ive just read this and i can now understqnd gaping is an ego boost for men. But why do ladies like to do this on their own?
It's not my sort of thing. I have received and given anal sex but never checked, commented or people comment on me/them.
Dya mean aesthetically? Sorry im just very interested! Its not often i cant understand people haha!Ork wrote:
fistinglover69 wrote:
Okay okay. Ive just read this and i can now understqnd gaping is an ego boost for men. But why do ladies like to do this on their own?
Same thing I would guess... I mean it's not just an ego thing, it's pretty awesome as far as some people are concerned lol.
Somewhere to sit your Cola can if you're driving? I dunno.
Okay this is what im doing my dissertation on!! >: [
Gaping is a bad thing that porn has brought into view.
I'm pleased that most people on this thread appear to agree with me that it simply isn't nice to look at or show off.
Sure it exists but do we really need to all be aware of it and put it on show - I think not.
Defo a turn off .....
I watch loads of porn but didn't have a clue what this was (I do now...)
fistinglover69 wrote:
Okay okay. Ive just read this and i can now understqnd gaping is an ego boost for men. But why do ladies like to do this on their own?
Personally, I think I'm going to stick with men who get their ego boost from the pleasure they give me. I find this 'drilling' talk off-putting.
I must admit I like the cream pie effect as her bits return to normal.
Have just been 'investigating' this on fetlife and have to say that i cannot see the appeal either. I've just seen some pretty hideous photo's and i personally be pretty terrified if my bottom looked like that!!!
Ork wrote:
I'm so glad that the community on here is so open and welcoming, you know it's not like they would label anything "hideous" etc, you know becuase that would be against what the forums about... as far as being sexually happy etc, just becuase you don't like something doesn't mean bashing it is a great idea.
I dont mean to offend but in my opinion the inside of someones bottom prolapsing is pretty hideous....Im not judging what anyone else is into, just my honest opinion.
Ork wrote:
I'm so glad that the community on here is so open and welcoming, you know it's not like they would label anything "hideous" etc, you know becuase that would be against what the forums about... as far as being sexually happy etc, just becuase you don't like something doesn't mean bashing it is a great idea.
i dont see any sexual fetish hideous or 'bad'. it makes me sad when people are close minded about sex/a sexual fetish. i just like to understand 
. its like furry fetishes... i think thats the only other fetish i dont understand..
miss steele didnt mean to cause offense though, she just meant that a particular picture she had seen was hideous or 'ugly' haha
I'm all for people doing what they like together, if they have each others consent. Personally, the idea of looking up someones fartbox does not sound too enthralling.
Thanks fistinglover, that's exactly what I meant.
I didnt realise gaping was exclusive to the botty hole, some of the people involved in the extremes of this need operations to put things right, surely that is going too far. A prolapse is a medical condition.
My OH would love to make my gape, I think it is more to see that during anal i have opened fully. I know he doesnt want it to be permanent but would like some openess during anal. :)