What is the psychology behind men who enjoy role-playing as a little boy and like having their domme mommy protect and nurture them and give them spanking when they misbehave?
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Often guys who like that will have some sort of childhood triggers behind it wether it been trauma or lack of a mum figure while growing up or purely the struggles of daily adult life what makes them feel more comforted having a female dominant be in control over them to help them feel safe and secure.
I have only spoken to one guy who this is his “thing” so can only give his reasons. Like @AJSTAR has also said
He was brought up in foster care and passed from pillar to post and didn’t have that connection and one to one relationship with a mother figure…he also had a very stressful day job making important decisions on a daily basis…
His escape was to feel nurtured…loved and cared for and not having to make any decisions sexually with a female mother figure…and that he was “good enough”
There are probably lots of reasons why we have “our thing” sexually and as long as no one is getting hurt and it’s behind closed doors who is anyone to judge?
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I totally agree and in many respects for guys like that I could imagine this type of escape role play is like therapy for them to help heal or manage their daily lifestyle.