Grab some blindfolds, toys and whatever and just experiment with each other. You will find things that cover your bases and fulfill each of you. We have married friends who aren’t in the lifestyle but use different toys to simulate different sexual fantasies. Double headed strap ons and blindfold play worked for them.
I took part in my first gb while dating a guy when I was 19. It wasn’t the sex itself but the attention I got that was intoxicating and addicting. Being caressed and touched by the guys that first time made it obsessive for a while, mostly because my age and self esteem battles younger women go through. There came a point where most social nights together ended with it.
I dont regret my experience but wouldn’t want to embark on introducing it into my life any point after we started a family. For the most part the sex gets long winded and those esteem battles have already been filled with life obligations and changes.
Would love to see GF suck a big black cock. Maybe she would be so turned on it would lead to more. Not sure how or when this would happen. I do think about it though.
Some things are best left up to fantasy but not knowing your relationship boundaries have you ever thought about getting a black dildo to play with if venturing out is not in the plans or have you discussed it? Either way be respectful of your relationship above all.
One of my fantasy’s is to be tied up standing in a frame and milked via my prostate. all my juices would be collected and tested and having other men having the same treatment.
I have a few fantasies, some of which me and my partner have been exploring recently
My ultimate fantasty though is a foursome with another couple and I’d love to try out double penetration one day too
Over the last few days I’ve suddenly started fantasising about having a one night stand with a friend of a friend, who I met recently. She’s a lesbian and single, while I’m straight and in a relationship, but I have always been curious about what it’s like being with another woman. We’re both part of the same friendship group, who are all going on a holiday in October, and I can’t stop imagining what it would be like if we both snuck away just for one night and started fooling around. I’ve had every kind of thought from how it would be initiated, what we would say, what she would do to me, would I know what to do to her, even down to the thrill of my partner not knowing it happened.
I have no idea where all of this has come from, as I don’t tend to fantasise about anything, let alone having a lesbian one night stand just to satisfy my curiosity! The trip is a while away yet, so I’m sure these thoughts will disappear before then, otherwise it might make for an awkward week!
It’s so strong and vivid in my mind at the moment though, that it’s certainly given me some unreal orgasms during play time though!
I wish to be the play thing for two couples where they swing both ways . Everybody is hair free around their playgrounds . I dream of mounting one of the women until I climax , then lay on my back and have the other ride me cowgirl style while woman number one sits on my face so I can eat our cream pie . Then have both woman take turns pegging me . Then have the men spit roast me . Then I would like everybody tie me to a bed with a blindfold on and do whatever they want . I can think of many more activities . BTW , its my fantasy so I can have the sexual stamina I had when much younger and a body builder . This fantasy keeps coming back with slight variations . Granted this much activity might kill me , almost be worth the gamble .
Tomorrow afternoon we are going to do something we have talked about. I am going to spend the rest of the day about the house in sexy lingerie including stockings and oh will just have sexy pants on. If someone comes to the house or if i have to go out in the garden i will put on a loose dress (there are builders at a neighbours working on the roof dont want them falling off ). Oh is back on the daily viagra on a higher dose so we will see if it has any effect on him.
Good luck i’m sure you will look fantastic walking around the house in sexy lingerie and stockings especially. I hope the daily viagra works. Keep us updated.
I dream about my gf being out with me, nightclub or wherever, being chatted up by and fancying another guy, getting a taxi together back to ours, and watching her and him unfold as I watch. I’d love to be able to kiss her, suck her toes, hold her as she’s enjoying this stranger, then possibly clean up after.
I know it’s strange and people would think I’m weird but she’s so so sexy and I’d love to watch her enjoying herself
From a womans point of view i cant understand why a bloke who loves his wife/partner would want to see them with someone else. Is it because they dont feel they are enough for them or that they cant satisfy them themselves or is it because they have seen it in porn and want to see it in real life? It does seem to be a common fantasy, thankfully not one my hubby shares. He is very possessive and protective of me. Any bloke who even smiles at me would get the glare and the arm goes round me. That is how he shows how much he loves me not by wanting me to have sex with someone else.
I remember once we were in a night club with my sister and her boyfriend and he and my hubby went to the bar. There was this bloke who kept pestering my trying to get me on the dance floor i said no but he kept on. Anyway hubby came back and just looked at him and i never saw anyone actually cower before in my life but he did and he scarpered. Hubby gets mistaken for a policeman quite a lot.
Without talking for all guys that have this ….. I would say it’s more down to the fact of how much we love our SO ….. we would want them to enjoy everything possible…. It’s confusing I get it but why wouldn’t you want your partner to be in the throes of passion? To see your wife /GF cumming is amazing using a toy or underneath you! This is almost like the next lvl .
Obviously this would be a huuuuge discussion with the SO. There would need to be 110% trust with each other and both party’s obviously need to be on board.
The life style is not for everyone and can lead to separation. For me personally if she was to go behind my back and sneak around and lie about things and would most certainly be on the war path and hunting someone down the trust would be gone and I’d be filing for divorce
But on the other hand as above seeing her enjoying her self is the biggest turn no matter how that is!
Sorry for me it would be a hard no. Even with the problems we have. He gets enjoyment from watching me with my toys and that is enough for us. Sex for us is between us to enjoy and not anyone else.Also i dont understand why a woman would agree to do this. Is she not getting enough from her OH or does she not love him any more and it is a way of getting sex with him knowing about it so its not considered as cheating It really baffles me. But i realise it works for some people. So no judgement just really confusing.
I think there are fantasies that a person would never want to actually happen , but the thought gets them aroused . I often push even my fantasies beyond anything I would ever do . My imagination is my only sexual partner . A person that has basically zero interaction physically with another person has to utilize their biggest sex organ , your brain . After well over two decades I am pretty good at it .
). Oh is back on the daily viagra on a higher dose so we will see if it has any effect on him.
That is how he shows how much he loves me not by wanting me to have sex with someone else.