My husband and I consider ourselves pretty adventurous, and after a long talk last night about our favorite ways to connect, we realized we might be stuck in a bit of a routine. We are both plus-size and absolutely love our sex life—our current ‘gold standard’ is doggy style, but we’re looking to branch out!
Are there any specific positions or creative variations you’d recommend for plus-size couples? We’d love to hear what works for you or if there are any hidden gems we’re missing out on!
Leg not necessarily up, but the “top” leg, as lying on side, is more forward, either straight or knee bent. When we are in this position my wife’s bottom leg is pretty straight and as I straddle on my knees her top leg is knee bent so her thigh is on top of my knee, that calf runs up along my thigh to my waist and I can hold her leg or she can hook her ankle around the back of my waist to pull me in. Depending on how much and where her top leg is bent it can be more or less challenging to get to her clit with fingers or a toy so it’s not a regular position for her orgasm in our house, but not impossible. Very good for very deep and/or g-spot stimulation.
Neither of us fall in the plus size category but we really found our groove with this position when she was pregnant as it was the only passive position that really worked for her by the 3rd trimester (doggy if she didn’t mind being up on her hands and knees - even with pillows under her belly it was a lot of work - and cowgirl if she was feeling energetic enough and wanted to get her orgasm that way).
As the husband of a plus sized woman I’m trying to figure that out as well. I’m also trying to figure out what works best for giving her oral. I know she complains of hip pain sometimes in missionary….
