Yeah same here... but those nights where he's too knackered for sex... grr! :P
When I want to masturbate, I just do so. I tend to do it over my underwear. Never penetrate, always just clitoral stimulation. No real ritual or routine even though the way I masturbate is pretty much the same everytime although sometimes I involve things like self asphyxiation, pinching nipples, slapping my face/breasts/inner thighs etc for that extra pleasure&pain stimulation.
I don't use sex toys but hope to buy some in the future, when I can afford to. Widen my experience of masturbation beyond my hands and give them a bit of a rest. Don't want a RSI, do I? :-p
I don't have a ritual in general, 90% of the time I just stick on some porn and have a wank.
On the rare occasions I know I have a little more time on my hands I'll break out a buttplug, lube and my stroke 29 and have some fun.
I usually have a look to find some decent porn, other than that it's just a wank-by-wank basis as to what I do.
when the parents are out either reading a magazine or on the web surfing ;)
vibrators normally come out but i keep them under my computer anyway
i like to lie on my bed, usually wearing a sexy bra/cami and no knickers and get my vibe and some lube (if required) and just get myself in a horny mood and play! i always make sure all the doors are locked too!!
bustychick wrote:
i like to lie on my bed, usually wearing a sexy bra/cami and no knickers and get my vibe and some lube (if required) and just get myself in a horny mood and play! i always make sure all the doors are locked too!!
lol all the doors you should make sure the phones off the hook too lol
im not a ritual person either. all my toys are now in my locked case (my daughter found them so they are locked away now, full story in another thread somewhere) so i just grab my keys, pick a couple out and away i go
i also keep a litle one in my bag as i have a 2 hr bus journey home from work and when its late at night and noone else is on there you need something to pass the time..... x
Hmm I don't think I have a ritual per se, but for example last night (I was really horny), after I had a shower and shaved (hmm nice and smooth), I broke out the lube and one of these: http://www.dannychoo.com/adp/eng/1679/Tenga+Egg.html I was in Japan recently and bought a few of them, they're pretty cool. I kind of abused the first one thought and it broke the second time I used it, cock burst through the top of it :D So I go easy with the other one I have.
Sometimes I'll look at porn, but that wouldn't be a very conscious thing to do, normally I prefer to sit back in bed with lube and sometimes a toy.
i get my little rabbit clit stimulator and which some animee porn, cos for some reason I get more turned on with cartoon porn than real life porn.
I'll let my clit vibrator do all the work as i just lie there wait to squirt and omg do i squirt with that little rabbit, never fails each time I use it.
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I don't exactly have a ritual. I also don't have to worry about locking doors either as I live on my own which means I can masturbate how I want and when I want. My favourite method has always been to put on a condom and lie on the bed on my stomach and basically to hump the bed (I really should get a sex doll!). Since joining this website I have experimented with the fleshlight and Tenga onacup with great success. Sometimes, I just lie on the bed on my back and use lots of lube and my hand . It's nice to have a choice of method and not stick to any one particular ritual.
Avrielle_Aniko wrote:
^^^ Did something go wrong in your post??
thats an understatement avrielle lol
Slight computer glitch on my last post. Unfortunately once you have posted something there is no facility on here to delete or edit it.
Well this morning I woke up hornier than a 15 year-old, so there was no way I was getting out of bed without spending almost an hour stroking and teasing myself ;) Sometimes it's the best feeling in the world, waking up and spending a long time masturbating... shame I had to get up and come into work!
Sigh... still horny too.
It depends usual is beat off to some porn, and when im coming to the point of no return a few rubbing action, or toy play that if i just want to cum. if i have time, i make time and go it sloooow, loads of toys, pumps, vibrator dolls, just enjoy myself.