When a man likes the smell of his wife only, and not to any other woman. Is that a fetish or pheromones?

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Hi, if you can help me, I not want Google answer, I want human answers. So if you can give me your input. Appreciated.

I know there a whole thing of men buy women dirty underwear to sniff fetish.
But my husband he only like the smell specificly of my underwear, and absolutely turned off when it come to other women. So it is my pheromones he attracted to or a fetish?

In my 15 years long marriage, my husband just so attached to the smell of my vagina, he thinks it smell sweet (while I don’t think so). But he said he wants to ‘taste’ me, and he always go down on me everytime before penetration.
He likes to have his face in my vagina to smell it, but he even put his tongue inside the hole of my vagina during cunnilingus.

Oddly he loves the smell of my vaginal discharge, he literally sniff my underwear smell it. Even when I’m on my menstrual (I get light period as I’m on birth control), when I have spotting blood mixed with vaginal discharge, he still smell it.

Google say it pheromones that he attracted to his wife scent, and only my specific smell, it emotional bonding, and body chemistry, etc..

What odd is he actually find my vagina discharge scent soothing and calming when he is stressed.
He an Executive at work, so he does stress, but when he home and put his face down my vagina and smell my discharge, my scent sooth him, like my scent is his emotional anchor, the bonding hormones? I have no idea.

I don’t mind at all, he is my husband, he can have his face anywhere on my body. I just didn’t know my scent alone can attached him this much. I guess when a man loves his wife he will adore her smell.

No, he completely turned off by other women smell. So I do not think this is a fetish if he only attracted to my smell only. But some say it a fetish.
But he said he has no fetish, and that he just a normal man who adore the smell of his wife.

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I have often said I could identify my wife by the smell of her pussy alone.

Her smell is an instant turn on.

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I would say he loves the smell of you specifically, as you say he dosen’t like the smell of other women.

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Thank you Mrs/Sir TrialandError.

Sorry, English is my 3rd language (I’m Chinese), and was still a virgin when married him. So he all I know when it comes to sex related stuff. Some say it a fetish, Google say it attraction to his wife smell, but I want a human answer, and not Google answer.

Thank you so much for your input.

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He does find my vagina scent comforting. The last 2 days he a bit stress at his work, and home he has his face down my vagina, and he just loves my smell down there, I guess it helps calm him from his stress. It like my scent has become his personal comfort cues.

My husband is a freak, lol. But he said he not a freak, and he just a normal man, lol.

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I absolutely love that my OH has consistently has almost no smell. It’s a really great experience for me.

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My husband is absolutely calmed down by the smell of my vagina, in a way he isn’t by others. The smell of others excites him, as mine excites him, but mine calms him almost instantly.

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@KinkyMira . Im rarely stressed, but MrsIwill scent is quite heady for me…i could lose myself in her kitty…she has been known to tap out :joy:

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It would be my guess that it is pheromones and his love for you . Nature’s method of keeping inbreeding reduced . In my experiences , I have noticed natural pheromones mixed with strong perfume scents can repulse me . In other cases a matching light scent perfume that compliments a woman’s scent can drive me totally wild .

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Ditto, have caught a whiff of a total stranger’s combined mix of pheromones and perfume that I normally wouldn’t look at twice, but her scent gave me a hard on.

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