When did you discover a kink?

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Hey! Just wanted to know how anyone else discovered a fetish they have? Was it a random moment that caused a thought to appear in your head or have you always just known what you enjoy?

I have quite a few kinks, but one in particular I enjoy is swimsuits, strangely in an open pool it doesn’t do anything for me. But on holiday with a partner she came in from the pool and laid on the bed and I couldn’t resist her. Even since then I have had a huge kink for swimsuits in the bedroom.

does anyone else have any stories like this?

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A few that I can recall, all in my medical kink

Steel speculums - my first pap spear at 24, I was understandably nervous but I can never forget the feeling of being penetrated by something cold, hard and impersonal; it felt “wrong” and that only made the arousal worse. Being stretched, too, I honestly thought I was going to have an unexpected, uncontrollable orgasm. Unfortunately what started off as awkwardly pleasurable became downright painful when the nurse stretched me too wide. Still, though, it hasn’t made me not want to explore them in a more controlled environment.

Being referred to as a “subject” or a “patient” - It’s dehumanising and somehow oh so kinky. Many moons ago I had a phone sex friend, a quite Dominant one, and he would tell me what to do then narrate down the phone like he was observing me - “patient is…” etc. I couldn’t even explain this weirdly kinky thing that this man was doing with me, it was perverted as hell but I was hooked on what he did. It was our dirty little secret - I was his “subject”, his “patient”, his plaything.

Unfortunately that connection went awry when he started encouraging me to do things that were gross and illegal, like actual incest, beastiality etc. He’d accuse me of wasting his time when I (hopefully understandably) refused his instructions.

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All the time.

I’m still discovering them.

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Swimsuits are a huge hit. How could they not … body hugging, worn wet. Same with leotards though without the wetness. Have had a kink for both as long as I can remember.

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If you’re calling a guy wearing lingerie a kink then I started at about 19 yo

I’d just got my first proper paying job and bought my first top shelf magazines

I guess I just wanted to look like the models in their lingerie

I went to the local department store lingerie dept and bought a set of bra panties stockings and suspenders

The next proper kink I guess would be my exhibitionist tendencies and that was about 8 years ago now

I started to watch people exhibit themselves on the Hampster site and signed up for an account and started to show myself nude n masturbating

I’d only show my cock n ass if I was fingering it

I’d have an audience of maybe 20 people

The turn on was massive

I moved on from there to cam with individual people and small groups and now I’m just showing everything including my face

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Rugby thighs is a massive thing for me and reckon it’s come from randomly flicking channels and seeing a rugby match on tv with all the hot tackling and body contact :rofl:

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I discovered I liked shibari after an illustrated drawing showed up on my timeline some years ago. I don’t know the artist, but the steps were:

  1. Make it dig,

  2. Avoid single rope wrapping,

  3. Don’t forget the knots,

    etc… I’d love to try someday. though, there’s no people here that are into that (understandable given I live on a reservation with a decent enough population); and if there are, I don’t know them.