A lot this past week 
long sessions with a lot of spankings 
and with quickies thrown in too. I love it when he has time off work 
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Mrs W here ā¦
Last time Pen and I made love was yesterday. Mr W went to visit Family, so as soon as he went out we started ā¦ clothes off and it went on all day and evening. Mr W returns mid morning today ā¦
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@Tenshadesandme . Havent managed to find your blog ā¦are you allowed to post a link to it?
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This morning.
Nipple action for me.
My nipples are very sensitive now that i have greatly enlarged them so i love having them stimulated.
She started by kissing, licking and biting them then started pinching them gently then harder.
When they were fully erect she used the stimulators on them. These are a pair of vacuum cups with rotating soft brushes in the tops.
She switches on the brushes then slowly pumps out the air to draw my nipples up into the rotating brushes. Itās absolutely exquisite, especially with the pattern which reverses the rotation every couple of seconds.
I end up a shuddering, squirming, moaning wreck on the bed.
When Iād recovered i laid on my back with a wand clamped between my legs and she straddled my hips and rode the wand to a couple of orgasms.
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@Iwill thereās a link to my blog on my profile 
Last night straight forward piv
When did the Korean war end ? 
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@Tenshadesandme ā¦Got itā¦thank you.
I will look forward to following your blog.
So interesting to read from the perspective of someone with disabilities.
Initially i presumed you perhaps meant mobility disabilities, but on reading i understand its more hearing and suffering anxietyā¦ obviously your chronic pain may limit your mobility.
To most members of the forum, we are probably viewed as a very vanilla couple.
My wife certainly more than i am.
On BDSM , i suffer from a degree of the following Merinthophobia, Cleithrophobia and Claustrophobia.
I could tolerate bondage that i could with some effort break free from.
On the sadomasochism iām open minded to a degreeā¦ the idea of moderate physical chastising does appeal.
I think id describe my own sexual profile as passionate, with more than a bit of raw earthinesss about it.
With regards to dominance and submission, Id probably see myself as more sub as being ordered to perform sexual acts does create enormous arousal.
I will read your blog with great interest .
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@Tenshadesandme ā¦ can i ask , do you have exhibitionist tendencies to go along with your BDSM side. " Curtains open "
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Thankyou for your kindness. Actually, Iād say my chronic pain probably affects me far more than my hearing does. I have chronic pain in my right wrist (my own fault for being so damn competitive!) so I canāt handwrite, open jars or do finer things like pick up a coin without pain, I also get shooting pains in my foot when I walk after breaking my big toe back in 2020 (my own fault for flirting!). I have RSD Type 2: Causalgia (ācausā, reason, "algia, pain, it basically just means āreason for painā) which usually stems from damage to nerves. Although my condition has improved somewhat, itās never improved to the point whereby I no longer need help with some things, like preparing vegetables and opening jars.
Iām sorry to hear about your phobias. I have a really peculiar one, anthophobia, the phobia ofā¦ flowers! Iām fine with āclosedā flowers, like roses, but anything with visible stamen makes me go queasy. Having said that, the best way to overcome any phobia is gradual exposure. With a trusted and understanding partner, you can face your fears 
Itās interesting how weāre drawn to different sides in this world. Iād describe myself more as a āservice submissiveā - I love to be inherently helpful. Sex is great, but itās a part of for me - an appetiser, as it were, rather than the main entrĆ©e.
Regarding exhibitionism, I was a naturist for many years so being naked for me now is just a part of this thing we do. I have no shame in nakedness or in my body, and actually, I think nakedness and the human body should be celebrated. I do remember there was a guy at the pool, and he and I used to flirt all the time. Too bad he wasnāt kinky, thatās all Iām saying. I think, though, the exhibitionism never really used to be a thing for us, yet now that our bedroom is on the ground level and it faces the street, itās definitely become a thing for us.
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Thatās quite the trio of phobias, magnetic bindings I find best to use with these conditions but I know Lovehoney doesnāt provide anything like that. (Maybe they should)
The magnets reassure the wearer that they can pull apart without to much trouble as sliding is easier than pulling and if you have a metal bed at home or a wood framed bed you can add metal or magnets to all the better, if in a dungeon environment attaches to most frames as a side note.
Iāve used these types of bindings firstly in front of the person myself to show the freedom it allows and then when I pass them on they are just to wear unbound so they get use to the feel. Then progress to fully bound, Taking it slow and steady allows for communication especially if it causes a trigger to happen. I hope you and your wife have some success
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Thatās interesting, Iāve been around almost two decades and Iāve never seen magnetic restraints before. Usually when supporting people with anxieties and phobias I work with communication, reassurance, graduated exposure and positive association, for example, bondage with wrists in front and a big cuddly bear. Then itās more like an adult version of hugging a cuddly toy. It works with varying degrees of success, of course, as these things often do.
ETA: I find myself thinking now more about magnetic restraints, would I or wouldnāt I? I quite like psychological bondage, the fact that one can move if they want to, itās just a matter of whether they want to 
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Itās out there, you just have to look, or make it yourself 
Remember itās not how long youāve been in the game, itās how far you let your mind wonder in the kinky that shows the depth of your Dominance or submission 
I need to apply for a job in Lovehoneys product development team.
Of course you do 
That might be the problem, my Dominant side has practically been left to collect dust 
but hell, Iām not complaining 
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But a good sub delves deeply into the options to help their master stretch them and find their level of submission they are most comfortable with and tease just beyond it. Masters have so much to do a sub should be helping do the research.
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Youāre right, a good sub does
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The phobias are probably moderate compared to some people, so i wouldnt initially go in to a pure panic , but would certainly develop if a prolonged experience.
I get anxious going through tunnels in a car, so things like the Clyde or Tyne tunnel are not an enjoyable experiences.
Being tied up i could suffer , but anything like a gag would be a definite NO.
How people tolerate ball gags i do not knowā¦!!
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We love going to nudist beachesā¦im with you on celebrating nakednessā¦all bodies beautiful jn their own unique way.
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If you can manage them, thatās reall all that matters. Iām a terrible passenger as well - Iām used to being in control, so Iām useless in the passenger seat.
As for ball gags, itās horses for courses. I like bit ggs (not so much ball gags) be cause I can be quite cheeky/diplomatic sometimes, so I need reminding to shut up!
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@Tenshadesandme ā¦ you sound a very enigmatic person,with definite layers. .
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