@SteelA1 would she consider reducing her hours maybe? Have you spoken to her about any of this? I know that if my husband was to say to me it was really affecting him and he was really unhappy etc then I would seriously consider it.
Has this been going on for a while? Have you spoken with her about the lack of sex life previously? Do you still want to be with her? Do you still find her attractive (physically and mentally)?
Relationships are so hard, I don’t think anyone can say things are always smooth in every relationship. We all have to work at these things.
That said; if it’s time to walk away, it’s time to walk away. You cannot spend your life hoping/wishing/waiting. You only get one life x
1 Like
Yes I’ve tried bringing it up, she just makes an argument out of it every time! Saying what about her feelings this that and the other! I’ve said I’m not just trying to talk about me but both of us! Baring in mind we’ve not had sex in “approximately” 5 years 4 months 12 days 21hrs and 12 minutes 
last time I brought up the sex part of things was about 6 months ago and her response was “is that all you ever think about”! I feel I can’t win!
But yes she’s proper easy on the eye, fine body! Well toned all over very pretty in the face! I think I need a less attractive lady who’s a little crazy 
my ex was super horny at all times! She was just too crazy though xx
1 Like
@SteelA1 how long have you been together? Are there any hormonal issues that could be going on for her?
That is quite an accurate ‘approximation’ 
and quite a substantial period of time too 
Have you tried the usual stuff- helping with the housework/family life etc. Buying her some flowers/chocolate/sausage rolls (Whatever floats her boat 
) running her a nice bubble bath for when she gets in or leaving some new luxurious bubble bath/shower gel/body butter on the kitchen table for her? Finding little ways to show you appreciate her?
It’s so hard when the lines of communication are cut down though.
Have you tried emailing her instead? Maybe she doesn’t want to talk face-to-face? Maybe it’s too awkward for her?
Crazy does help, I’m certainly a little crazy 
which is why my husband loves me 
1 Like
I was joking about the approximation, I just know it’s been roughly 5 years! Been with her 13years but we actually went to school together then didn’t see each other for years until bumping into each other!
Yes I’ve tried all those things many times but kinda stopped bothering now as it’s never appreciated and I just get accused of trying to get into her pants so to speak
2 Likes
I know; hence the laughing faces approximately 5yrs is a long time though.
If I were you I would compose an email/letter over a few weeks. I’d highlight how I feel, how I still find her attractive and enjoy her company etc but part of all of this is the sexual connection you once had. Explain how you loved the early days and highlight some of the good times you shared, how it made you feel and how it makes you feel looking back on those times.
Explain that you miss the feel of her skin next to yours, her lips on your lips, your hands around her waist etc etc
Tell her how it makes you feel that you try to do nice things (and list them) but that you feel unappreciated and unwanted.
When my husband highlighted how he felt when we had a lull it really hit home with me. I realised it wasn’t all about me and it wasn’t all about sex.
Luckily for him things changed and we work together on our sex life now.
Such a shame! You seem like a lovely guy 
but under appreciated for sure x
3 Likes
Thanks @Delightful87 i actually am I really nice guy I get everything you’ve said but I honestly hand on heart think it’d fall on deaf ears unfortunately
x
2 Likes
@SteelA1 if I were you and I wasn’t completely, 200%, sure that things were over I’d give it that one last chance but that’s me; I’m a hopeless romantic and slightly crazy!
The bottom line is; you deserve to be happy as does she. Staying in a relationship just to keep the other one comfortable/happy will never work xx
1 Like
I’m about 195% sure it’s over! I want her to be happy and if that means she’s not with me then so be it! You never know, absence could make the heart grow fonder 
X
2 Likes
Indeed! And if it wasn’t meant to be, it wasn’t meant to be. Your ‘happy ever after’ is out there somewhere- whoever that is with.
Got to keep that positivity 
1 Like
Absolutely! I always try to be positive about everything! Something is always waiting just around the corner 
thanks for chatting! Much appreciated x
2 Likes
My longest time without sex is nearly 2 months and we’d have discussions/arguments about it, she’d say the exact same thing to me is sex all you think about. I’d argue that sex is the main part of it in my opinion you’re with your partner because you’re sexually attracted to them other wise you’re just friends. My heart goes out to you not having it for 5 years
1 Like
Not full sex but about half hour ago. Still sleepy cwtching in bed I noticed he was hard. So had a play - which lead to him eventuslly asking where I wanted him to cum. I said on my pussy. Great start to the day.
6 Likes
Awesome session last night. My wife wore some new sexy lingerie, we got some of our toys out and enjoyed amazing sex. There was an amazing BJ whilst I sat on the head board as well… Nearly came in her mouth right there but instead saved it up for her spreading her self and coming all over her pussy and ass.
2 Likes
This morning.
Day 11 0f 12.
Our usual Sunday routine. An anal hook collar and chain for me and shaving, oral and rimming for my wife.
After the oral orgasms she handcuffed my hands to the anal hook behind my back then sat on my face while I rimmed her. She normally uses a wand on her clitoris once I start rimming her but this time she just sat there for a while enjoying the sensations for their own sake. She turned on the wand but initially used it on the outside of my cock cage then finally used it on her clitoris. Her orgasms are always spectacular when I’m rimming her.
Afterwards she kept me handcuffed to the hook till it was time for me to bring her breakfast in bed.
She’s come a long way in just a few weeks as regards the rimming. For 46 years she wouldn’t let me do it to her at all. A few weeks ago I persuaded her to let me try it but she used the wand on her clitoris immediately to take her mind off what I was doing to her. Now (a few weeks later) she revels in the feeling and lets me lick her for a long time before she eventually finishes herself off with the wand.
Happy Days.
We’re working on a big finish tomorrow (Day 12 of 12).
3 Likes
Last night more than a drink or two plus some poppers etc, and did all sorts to each other, suspect my wife’s bum is sore this morning, then woke at 4:30 for work rolled her onto her back and had sex in her dreamy state.
2 Likes
About an hour ago 
and last night
3 Likes
Last night sat on the sofa I had my leg’s on his lap, I could feel him getting a erection, so I masturbated him with my feet, then I was across his lap and gave him a blowjob, he inserted into my bum, and just went for it, then moved to my vagina and went for it again, leading me to have multiple orgasm’s which spurred him on to cum, and we did at the same time
1 Like
This morning.
Day 12 of 12 
.
We both chose our favourites. I chose to be pegged face to face with my hips up on a wedge cushion and my legs held apart by a neck to thigh strap. I was wearing a steel triple cock and balls ring and a hollow penis plug. As she pegged me I masturbated and she carefully timed her thrusting to my rising orgasm. When I finally came she was really going at me.
Her choice was very different. Since we started this chastity relationship she has masturbated more and more. She has begun to enjoy this as much if not more than any form of penetration so her choice was for me to simply lie beside her and cuddle her as she masturbated herself to multiple orgasms. using her wand.
We’ve got the grandchildren back tomorrow so our 12 day sexathon is ending. We’ll be back to the normal 3 or 4 times a week for a while.
5 Likes
Last night again a little tipsy and some other help had a great time used some "improvised " toys think this and being on our purple pvc sheet helped me get my wife to pee herself which I wanted her to though she’s a bit self conscious she then had her hand up my bum almost to her elbow, it’s a bit vague for us both quite what we enjoyed but it’s all good.
Last night, the wife had a few drinks and we had actual Anal sex which was amazing, totally impromptu and she absolutely loved it. Never dreamed it would have been a possibility, she does like bum fun but never had more than a finger or a small plug, definitely adding that to the routine 
2 Likes