That’s very sensible and something my wife did too.
Although I never put any pressure or expectations on to her she always felt that if I was there she had to make sure she had an orgasm.
When she’s alone she can concentrate entirely on experimenting to find exactly what she likes.
Wife woke me up fidgeting in the early hours this morning and we both couldn’t get back to sleep
Wife suggested we have a mutual session as that always makes us sleepy after
Wife used her bullet and i just used my hand 
We both fell back to sleep
Exactly that! Good to hear from someone who’s got experience in this. Seems quite unusual for someone to not masturbate these days!
Like you I don’t put any pressure on her but she prefers the time to explore by herself which I think is a great idea. She doesn’t then have to please me, but she can focus purely on pleasing herself. Good learning journey! And an exciting one!
Had a loo break towards the end of my meeting and gave myself a quick orgasm with my hand to release the tension.
@KinkyMira … I can just imagine the schene…
" ok, I’ll leave you to consider my proposal, while I just go and flick the bean for a few minutes ". 
Tuesday night.
Thought I’d have a cheeky one before bed laying on the sofa 
A couple of LH cock rings to assist and let’s say it wasn’t a long session…
Yesterday and if I keep edited watching this movie Mmmmm it will be on again
Caught up in the act …does that count need help 
Clear that up a bit …right now
Well let’s see not masturbated this year yet ??
This morning had a mutual session with my new toy,
Fleshlight ! Wow that is something else
So wish I had one earlier
Wife used her clitoral suction stimulation toy
Definitely a different session from our normal Saturday morning
This morning with the Fleshlight.
Need to look at investing in another one, the current one is getting plenty of use, but looking to try a different experience.
Saturday night.
I was keen, wifey was too … but she was also pretty tired. I’d normally have let her drift off and try again to seduce her in the morning.
This time though I told her I was still going to have some fun … and as she pretended to drift off, I lay next to her and had a fun solo session.
We spoke about it the next day. She was awake the whole time. She woke in the morning feeling frisky … she was already wet when I started touching her. The sex was great.
“2 times in 8 hours - impressive” she said to me afterwards. That was a 46yo relative comment … but I did remind her that my drive etc is just as strong as when we first got together aged 25!! 
Had a good session this morning listening to my 22year old stepdaughter having a good time
Last had another session with my new fleshlight
Solo or well wife watched as to learn to see what i was doing to give myself more pleasure
A little less lube then the first time of using but enough and the warmth felt really good
I ttok my time, a little while in wife started playing with herself
We both had such a very intense
Really liking the fleshlight
@DLJL
Which fleshlight do you currently have?
I have the Vanna Bardot Fleshlight, got to say it/she feels good
This morning. I woke up stiff and had to relieve it before getting up.
Yesterday. 3 times, probably an hour or two apart. Was just feeling insatiably horny!!
Is “at this very minute” an allowed response!?
