@user1576 depending on your age, of course, it might seem odd as you say. But as you age and things aren’t as … hard … as they used to be, it means that you can still be intimate with your partner and not have to worry about your own performance.
I’m lucky enough that I can still get it up, but I know that when that time comes when I’m unable to fulfil my wife, she can still enjoy me and I can still enjoy intimacy, even if the roles are reversed. If anything, it seems more intimate to me.
Gradually chatting about desire and what we are each comfortable with. We have an Njoy dildo and some other regular ones, so might start to use them instead of specific prostate massagers as a next step. Although I am curious what the Njoy will be like with someone else in control of it.
@AutoScot how long have you and your partner/wife been together if you don’t mind me asking?
Has she offered to use the dildos or other prostate toys you have on you yet? Or are they currently for solo play for you?
Hope the conversations keep happening buddy and become more open and experimental as a result of you both talking!!
My first time will be Monday 
Me and my partner have toyed with the idea.
She has used her tongue fingers and bullet vibes before and when I orgasmed via the male Gspot.
We purchased one, and it is coming this weekend. Very excited.
Any tips from ye guys to make this heavenly
Depending on the size go slow and plenty of lube. First time may be awkward, especially for the female when it comes to moving her hips to thrust. Make sure you are clean and have had a bm at least a few hours before. I like to use an anal douche at times to make sure all is clean. If the first time is a little underwhelming keep practicing. Practice by yourself as well to get a feeling of knowing what feels good and what does not.
Last night had a lovely night of passion and hot sex then to my surprise because we hadn’t mentioned it she put on her harness and attached my new 8” toy lubed my ass up and told me to suck her girl cock if I wanted it in me of course I wanted it in me so I did what I was asked then she slid it slowly deep into me after five mins withdrew lay down for me to do what I love to do while getting pegged and ride her all while I stroked my cock then spun round facing her then when I was going to cum slid my cock up to her mouth and came there then she told me to spin round so she could suck and lick my balls and told me to suck her cock again
I have left out a pair of Crotchless white knickers for my husband to put on after his bath
He wants today to take the 2.25 inch girth dildo - so currently awaiting his return- we have litres of anal lube as it’s going to be a stretch - it’s a very nice dildo but brings tears to my eyes..
That’s the spirit.I didn’t ever think i would be interested in anything like this but I am and now I am interested in the real thing and have to be huge fan and inflict a lot pain and penetration.just last night I had a really hard and painful experience with a guy who had been involved with on a number of occasions and he is very good now I’m home and he is on a plane waiting for the club to be opened I’m left with my legs up with a hard cock drip with a bit of a splash or something like that to keep me most focused up a 10” in side of my self got go getting Serious
I had the LH 4.5” girth butt plug. Was a struggle to start with my my inner slut came out in the end and loved when it popped in and out the most!
God I miss that thing! Might get another one.
I haven’t been pegged in a long time, but want to be pegged again, Luckily I have beads, butt plugs and prostate massagers to go with for now.
Yesterday afternoon, nice slow sensual pegging. A lot of kissing and foreplay before and very erotic.
It’s been a few days and have been hinting to OH about tonight
Yesterday morning!! I had recently bought my wife a pair of strap on pants from LH to save the hassle of all the straps on the our harness. I was locked up in chastity and asked my wife if she wanted to try out the strapon pants. She didn’t hesitate, she effortlessly inserted our usual dildo and proceeded to give me a sound pegging. I think the comfort of the strap on pants was a factor as this was the hardest my wife has ever pegged me. I still can’t stop thinking about it!
Saturday night/Sunday morning OH had been away for the day to Blackpool have various pics and info from her throughout the day got a text saying what do you want brought in as a gift so I said you pick.Picked them up from bus station dropped others off went home climbed into bed and she asked I hope you have been a good boy today I asked what she meant and her reply was I hope you got prepared for this looked in her hand and she was holding an I would say 6-7”black dildo which she had bought from the well known high street retailer no names allowed to which I answered yes I have she took the lube had me masturbate while she attached it to the harness lubed me and toy up and gently slid in into me gave me a pegging for about 20 mins and then got up went to bathroom to clean toy came back to me masturbating and said good now I want this in my pussy and you in my ass on all fours I slid in and she started masturbating with dildo while I slid in and out of her ass she said I want your cum deep in my ass and that is exactly where it went.We fell asleep only for me to be woken with her mouth wrapped around my cock and the toy back in my ass
I wish ):
It’s been over two weeks. Moved from our house of twenty five years this weekend and been no time. Been crazy.
I am new to the forum and so want to try pegging and rimming. My OH likes popping in a plug or beads so I hope she will one day go a step further. I love it when she touches me near my arse and it feels great with the beads. Maybe on my birthday….
Sounds like an excuse to christen every room @JMS55 . My husband had a spreadsheet when we moved in here!
LOL, we were saying the same. We are now pretty much all moved in. No more stress.
Last night I used a great looking 7 inch on my husband. We had a quiet month so wanted to kick start November with an easy dildo - not too wide