So previously mentioned in the past my O/H had squirterd a few times with her O/H
She has never squirted with me
When she’s on top she cums Gets heavy and extra wet and milky
If I keep going will this help her squirt?
Keep going To the point she can’t take no more?
When she does cum it makes me finish too instantly which is the hard part lol
Any tips?
There are many here that can help you figure this out. I have only made my wife squirt twice in our years together. Once I was inside her in a missionary position, and he bum was on a pillow, elevating her hips, which as I understand, made my glans hit her G-spot more directly. With my shallow thrusting and finger on her clit, she had a strong orgasm and did eject a quantity of fluid, much more than her usual juices. The other time, was when I was eating her out, and had my finger inside, rubbing her G-spot in a side to side motion. Again, she had a strong orgasm and drooled a lot of fluid, not really a squirt, but much more and a different consistency than normal. I hope this helps. Others will give you more input. Enjoy.
When she cums is that typically when the squirting happens? Or if I keep going will it later come
Not every woman squirts. The squirting you see in porn is often grossly overexaggerated and sometimes even completely fake.
How do you know she squirted with her ex? Were you there? How does she know she quirted? A powerful orgasm can feel like squirting, but that doesn’t mean it was, or it’s like you see in porn.
If you enjoy sex together, and you can make each other cum, then why is that not enough?
Because we have had the discussion and she has?
No one said we didn’t enjoy it!?
Just a general question and helpful awnsers would be appreciated
My neighbour claims to have two girlfriends who he has wild threesomes with every night, I’ve seen neither of them and heard nothing of the sort. Just saying, don’t believe everything you’re told. People can and do exaggerate for all kinds of reasons, sometimes even entirely innocent ones.
You’re also missing my point. I didn’t say you didn’t enjoy it, I just asked why making her cum is not enough for you. Why is it important for you to make her squirt? Does she want to squirt with you? Maybe she’s already enjoying sex with you, and doesn’t want to squirt 
My bad.
It is something we have discussed before.
It’s just one of those things we would like to get to do and master. She doesn’t know how it happened and when I don’t know how it happened it’s hard to prefect if you get me
No worries.
If it’s something she wants to do again then that’s completely understandable; it can be very pleasurable.
Would she be open to discussing with you how it happened? It’s hard for you to replicate if you don’t roughly know how it happened. “Keep going” is great advice, but you need to know how to begin first
She doesn’t know how it happened or else she just doesn’t want to say what is understandable.
It did happen once with us a while ago in the shower, i obviously didnt see it happen because the shower was on.
It was fingering motion when it happened.
I’m thinking once she cums ontop of me I shud keep going and see how she reacts
I mean.. I’m not discouraging the idea…
It’s just trying not to finish myself when she finishes lol
I wish I could help with that one but I’m my husband’s kryptonite too lol.
Has anyone else got any other advice?
Typical men eh
Have u any other advise to try get it to happen?
TBF when she’s close to finishing it does sound very gushy but between me I’m dry so I think keep going at it might eventually happen
I mean… it’s not our fault, just sayin’ 
I think the big thing is to work out somewhat how it happened for her, or to find out, if you can - communication is very important in a relationship. Like @Latestr8 's wife, some of my strongest orgasms have been through a combination of oral and g-spot stimulation, but also it can be one of those things where the more you try to make it happen, the more evasive it becomes. You may have to be persistent but also patient, if that makes sense?
Talk about it outside of the bedroom so you’re not distracted or immediatly tempted to try.
And then practice, and talk. Its likely going to be trial and error for both of you so just have fun with it, encourage each other, be explicit about how something feels and how you think it might be improved, don’t put yourselves under pressure, don’t try to force it, enjoy the exploration and play.
So from reading other posts on here, and my own recent experiences with my queen squirting for the first time ever recently (and we’ve managed to do it a few times since!), I think that a woman can squirt, or cum/orgasm, or do both at the same time. Please correct me if I’m wrong.
The first time with us was her bent over a table in the kitchen and my thumb in her caressing her g-spot, and my fingers against her clit. Literally the floodgates opened, which obviously was a massive turn on for me, so I just kept on going until she squirted again pretty quickly. However, she said she didn’t actually orgasm at all, but it felt amazing!
Since then we’ve talked about it, over the phone and in person, so we know what did or didn’t work the next time we tried it.
So last week (covered in a different post by me), she was on all fours with my thumb/fingers in the same place, and this time she came and squirted.
Only then did I enter her, otherwise I would have already finished… she’s my Kryptonite! 
(excellent phrase, @Tenshadesandme !)
I guess communicating with each other has helped us find this next level between us.
Hope you guys can find the same, if that’s the way it works out for you!
Thank you, but can’t take credit for kryptonite. My husband was the one who called my mouth his kryptonite and “a dangerous weapon”, so I suppose the credit should really go to him.
Well, he could take it if he was awake enough to take it, I suppose 
Well we never have talked about it in the bedroom, it would more be a car/ train journey topic, then when it comes to it we don’t talk about it but I try it without saying just to try take as much pressure off her as possible
OMGyes is a good place to learn specific techniques which might work for you both.
Male here, almost 60. First, I love it when a lady squirts. Not all do or will though and some don’t want to, think it’s wrong etc.
I’m no expert by any means but there are different ways to do this.
Two fingers inside the vagina doing the “come hither” motion work well, but with a twist for one lady in particular.
She would lie so her lower abdomen, just above her vaginal opening, was on my left pectoral muscle. I was lying on my back on the bed and she was lying diagonally over me with her head on a pillow over my left shoulder. I’m right handed so I was using my right hand inside her vagina.
I was able to push down with my fingers against the upper inside wall of her vagina and I could feel my chest on the other side. She liked that and with that particular lady, it had a really high success rate of making her squirt, like over 90%.
Surprisingly to some of you, that lady was my 1st wife, my ex-wife.
We all know penises are different, some have the proverbial “fireman’s” helmet for the head of their penis, others don’t. I’m circumcised (American, born in the 60’s and it was chop, chop for us back then). My ex-wife would lie on the end of our bed, I’d be standing with the head of my erection inside of her so it could press up against the upper inside of her vagina, like my fingers would when I used them. While doing that, I would use a hand to press down on the outside area just above the opening of her vagina so she’d have the sensation there from both inside with my the head of my erection and on the outside with my hand pressing down.
For HER, those two ways worked very well.
Long ago in the 80’s in college was the first time she ever squirted, neither of us knew about it or knew it was coming. We were warming up before intercourse, making out and I was using my fingers inside of her and she ended up squirting, a lot as in we had to take all the bedding off and then wash the mattress and we had to put a fan blowing on the mattress (it was a college provided mattress in my dorm room).
She was nervous, blurted out it wasn’t pee. I didn’t care either way, I loved it. She was on top of me and it flooded me too but I loved it immediately.
I say surprising that it was my ex-wife because she and I had a bad sex life overall but she squirted easily and often, to the point we had to take precautions for the bedding or the carpet etc.