Actually that’s not how it works for us. Impact play is not done as a ‘punishment’ so she doesn’t look to find things to punish me for.
She does it because she knows that I enjoy it so much and I need to have it done to me every 2 or 3 days.
Generally she checks the marks she has made and when they fade away she makes some more.
@rockstar - dong get me wrong- it’s all play and very consensual- I just find excuses to spank him - he also does a lot on purpose in order to get a spanking ( generally this is wearing black lingerie or wearing my knickers)
As for marks - big fan myself and after I finish I take a photo to show him my handy work
I will often spank him when his bottom is still red from before - but then I get him to wear his wet look knickers while I do it - this gives the great sound of spanking but protects the bottom from too much - at the end of the day it’s a fun play 
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We do the photo thing too.
I’m building up a photo diary.
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Earlier tonight.
She bent me over the sofa and tried out our new real leather bullwhip.
It’s a big step up from our cheap PVC version in terms of pain and bruising. I’m very well striped in red and purple (she takes photos of her handiwork for our album).
The PVC whip is in the bin. In fairness we only bought it to see if we both liked whipping.
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Haven’t been spanked for a long time 
@rockstar
Nice to hear you got a real leather bullwhip - hope you enjoyed- but I too always take photos of my handiwork after a good spanking - such lovely memories 
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Last week by her hand in a leather glove. Loved every hit of her hand on my ass. I wanted more but got so excited I had to penetrate her right then.
Earlier today. Self my own hand on my bum whilst I had butt plug in and nipple clamps on watching great FFM anal porn.
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Last week!
Wife was working at her desk in wet look leggings and patent court heels.
I was on all fours under desk worshipping her heels and feet while she caned my bare bum that was poking out end of desk
@Billy_talent
That sounds wonderful- no doubt you deserved that spanking - let’s hope you repeat it again - serious leg worshipping needed 
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It was indeed. Had the key to my Chasity cage on her anklet which gave me extra motivation along with the butt plug in my arse.
Gentle taps with the cane whilst the wife was on a teams whilst I was still down there worshipping was the highlight
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Was given a good spanking yesterday by my OH with his belt and his hand was amazing i love getting my ass spanked!!
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@Billy_talent - it’s great to hear from you - personally I would have removed the butt plug from your bottom before spanking you - I would not like to damage my paddle …
Secondly- did she eventually relese you from your cage - ???
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Ooh good point is that your choice of spanking implement?
Yes I was released eventually but only after cleaning house top to bottom in nothing but lacy panties and after giving her an organism
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Tested out our new spanking canes on Saturday night. Each one left their own little mark and it felt incredible. A nice spanking session and I was rock hard 
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@KentCouple1990 - can I ask did you get them from Lovehoney or other shop - I like to use the cane on my husband but I find it a bit boring- it sounds you had a few
Secondly - was it you who was caned or your partner and did it hurt…
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They were from a different site as I really wanted something that gave that ‘whack.’ One leaves a lovely little heart shape and the others just a straight line.
So the spanking was on me as I’m really getting into it but also my wife adores being the dominant one.
In terms of pain, yes it was painful but such a lovely feeling. I was even asking my wife to hit me harder I was enjoying it so much.
I did my research and really took my time to choose what canes I wanted. Do you mind me asking what you finding boring?
@KentCouple1990
I would love to find a good looking cane - I just feel the crop or paddle easy and sexy to hold but the cane can be dull
I will defo look for the heart shape one you refer to - big into bring a dom and want to give more sting - as like you he wants harder spanks
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Definitely go with cane if you want more of a sting.
They leave more of a lasting mark too. Can really sting if you go hard with it but pain subsides quite quickly I find
She’s just finished using the paddle on me as i was hanging from the spreader bars in the bedroom. Imvery sore and red now.