Hi all, I’m looking to buy a clit suction toy for my wife, couple of questions.
A. Which is the best out there in peoples opinion? I’ve read loads of reviews in the last couple of weeks but if you had to recommend one which would it be?
B. Are they ok to use together? I’m just not sure about the size and shape etc compared to a bullet for example… or is it more a solo toy?
Thanks
I wouldnt be without my womaniser pro 40 and you can definitely use them as a couple as well as solo. They are a toy i personally dont think you can compare to any other type of toy.
I would absolutely recommend one but they arent for everyone, like all things so maybe start with a bufget friendly one before spending big money on one.
As you’ve done your research. Here’s two I’d choose both for solo and couples play.
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As to your question of if it’s a solo or together toy that’s for you to discuss together potentially try together and hopefully enjoy together.
One unexpected bonus is the increased potential for squirting. There’s a wiki here you can look for and I would suggest you read that as these toys do increase the potential.
Theres more to be talked about, maybe the discussion you have with your partner can also be a game time to practice your butterfly kisses.
Hi.
How do you mean not for everyone? What are the downsides?
Most things I’ve read say the orgasm is “mind blowing “
It can be incredibly unnerving bordering painful especially if you have a naturally sensitive clit
Oh wow, really?
Maybe not the toy to get as a gift then
Thanks
You could always try the cheapest of them all.
See what it’s like before delving deeper into the selection available. Lube and foreplay are important to the time. Don’t be scared to talk and experiment. If it doesn’t work out there’s always the returns department and recycling centre at Lovehoney and customer service to talk to if you have more questions.
As @JGood said they can be very intense. Some people dont like buzzy vibes or rumbly vibes. Some dont like their vibes set to high etc and the same goes for suction toys. Its not for everyone. But like most vibrators, you can turn the intensity up and down. Id definately say give one a go. Just go for a cheaper one to start before going up in price. I have 4. I love them. The only toy that can make me squirt!!!
This is a good recommendation. My first was a romp. Its a very good entry toy if your not too sure
I would recommend the Mon ami suction toy as a good one to start with, bc its low power at the lowest intensity and increases to a much higher level than I can take.
Choosing a suction toy isn’t as easy as just picking one, bc you need to think about the type of vibes the person likes (rumbly or buzzy) and whether they like low or high power. Once you know that, then you know the words to look out for in the product description. I love low power and rumbly vibes and I loved the Mon Ami toy I linked. If I’m already turned on, then I can take a bit more power and thats when I’d turn to the Womanizer Pro40. But my absolute favourite is the Womanizer Next. Its pricey, so you want to know that its going to be enjoyed before you spend the money. So thats my top 3. I prefer to use these alone, bc movement makes it really hard to keep the toy in place.
I bought my OH a Womaniser Starlet as her first suction toy. Its a very good product, can be frighteningly effective (!) with 3 settings & is easy to clean. I think its intended as a solo toy but we use it together, its very easy to do that & just be involved or take control, its also small enough to combine with PIV or other toys. I have bought her much more expensive versions since we got this but she still reaches for the Starlet first & we’d definitely purchase it again. Currently at £42 it’s worth considering
I highly vouch for the Lovehoney Pocket Pal, especially if you wanf somethinf you can gift and use together. It’s cute, compact, has fen speeds and it’s shaped like a penguin - oh and mine lives on my bedside 
Hey @Jon787878789999
Hope is ok to ask, but has your wife used a suction toy before ?..
No worries either way, but if I were in your shoes, I would probably go for the Lovehoney 24-Day X Womanizer Couple’s Sex Toy Advent Calendar 2024
Not only does it give you something to look forward, and build up to, it gives you loads of other things to consider in the lead up, and you get the suction toy at the end, which I’m told is a “OMG, such a great little starter”, so this might help to open and tick a few more boxes 
Hi.
No she hasn’t, she’s used classic vibrators and bullets but I was looking to get her something new that would feel amazing
Too be honest I’ve been slightly put off by some saying it’s a bit of a 50-50 on these
Completely understand @Jon787878789999 and a suction is definitely a different experience, and so everyone will have a different opinion, and so thats why we went for the calendar. 
IMO, it really is great value for money, added a bit of extra fun for the month, and full of new things that we could try, without any pressures. Must say, we weren’t disappointed… 
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@Jon787878789999 like you I read EVERY review there was before pulling the trigger on the Womanizer Pro40. that was OH first suction toy. it is a great one. use plenty of lube on her and on the toy. some complain about the noise but we’ve found once it makes a proper seal it goes quiet… the toy does anyway it is VERY effective, quite literally sucking an O out of her in less than 30 seconds, once that seal is made!!!
we tried the much cheaper rose with less than satisfactory results but every clit owner is different. adding a clit sucking toy is always a good choice. good luck on your quest.
Based on my OH’s feedback I can’t see it being a 50/50 unless some aren’t 100% honest out of concern for their OH’s feelings. Buy one that’s recommended / not too expensive, set the scene to relax your OH & see how you go. Don’t be surprised if it is really effective!
My husband got me this a while ago
www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/lovehoney-x-romp-switch-clitoral-suction-stimulator/a44869g81901.html
So i can ony really recommend this one but can tell you that it was enjoyable if you can hit the right spot
In fact its to good i tend to need a lot of clitoral stimulation to orgasm and with this i just orgasm to quick
I have used it during sex in doggystyle position which just took a bit of finding the spot
I would say it more of a masturbation toy than couple but we all different shapes and sizes
The Rose for a cheaper successful toy or Womanizer Next if you can spend more
My wife has this one.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/lovehoney/p/lovehoney-rose-clitoral-suction-stimulator/84894.html
Loves it, took her all of 5 minutes to cum using it yesterday.