Which do you prefer

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Which do you prefer, watching your partner dress for sexy time or the surprise of what they are wearing. For me it’s 50 - 50, the surprise, especially if not expected. But watching Mrs Ball getting dressed and being a little prick teaser is very erotic.

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I prefer knowing she is wearing something sexy underneath but not knowing what it is if that makes sense :joy:

On a few occasions she has worn something she knows I like but not said anything ….. as I’ve said before, picking up on signals is not my forte :joy: unless a very obvious hint is given I can and have missed out :man_facepalming:t3:. So knowing something is on but not knowing what it is untill the reveal would be my choice :joy:

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The element of surprise. Him not knowing is all part of the fun for me :sweat_smile: But I know he does like watching. A mixture is probably the best of both.

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The longer I know what she’s wearing, the more turned on I am.

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If it’s something new that I haven’t seen before then a surprise would be better. If it’s a regular thing then I prefer watching.

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Mrs W here …….

Yes, Mr W says he prefers the surprise of what I wear.

Pen says she prefers the surprise too ……….. and I also prefer the surprise of what Pen wears ……

All of us really enjoy the undressing too xx

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Hmm I reckon the surprise would be better for me

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My wife always comes out dressed. Think I’ve seen her bits and bobs getting dressed but think she normally tries to keep it as a surprise for me.

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I like both. I also really love being blindfolded and restrained (sometimes gagged too) while she then gets changed in the room with me.

She’ll tease me by describing which underwear she’s trying to decide between, running it over me, rubbing it on me.

Then when she’s changed she’ll come and pay me some attention, sometimes straddles me, sometimes lies down next to me. We kiss and cuddle and fondle but I am still blindfolded and have to try to work out what she’s got on. Sometimes she’ll throw in a little surprise extra and I’ll feel that she’s wearing a buttplug, chastity belt, gag or other treat.

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I don’t like my husband seeing me dressing up because I am awkward and don’t look sexy at all while I struggle to get the gear on. I prefer to surprise him.

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Both.
I love watching the OH get dressed and undressed, but seeing her put stockings on is so sexy..
Knowing she is naked under her dressing gown drives me wild too

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I enjoy knowing my OH is waring something underneath or being blindfolded if she’s getting dressed in the room with my, I do enjoy the surprise

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Usually a reveal, with no knowledge. Occasionally I’ve left out an outfit choice if its new and I really want to see it.

If we pack for holiday I’ll usually pack 3 outfits to keep that randomness of choice.

That said last fun time I watched OH dress up and that was pretty hot as it was real lowkey getting ready.

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I love wearing outfits for him, but I very much love when he has them picked out for me! Especially if I know there’s a chance someone might get to see :wink:

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I’d choose the surprise. Especially if it’s something new I’d never seen before.

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