Definitely a personal preference, I don’t mind either, but when it comes to clit suction toys, some work and some don’t, and it’s totally down to the person.
So many people rave about the Satisfyer Pro, but I actually found it didn’t do anything for me, yet I love both the LH Thrill clit stimulator and LH mon ami rose.
Vibration-wise, I’m more inclined to use a wand than a pinpoint or pebble stimulator, it’s just more effective for me, but again, not everyone’s body will react the same, and it’s important to remember that. No stimulation/toy is a ‘one-size fits all’
I agree with @JoCat , the wife loves her wand. First great purchase she made. That led to us trying other vibration and suction toys! Good luck and keep us updated on what you think!