So sometimes when we have sexy time. We go old school mutual masturbation , no toys no porn. Just us and our hands and and see who can cum first. Anyone else ?
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No matter what we’re doing she always comes first. Its the law!
Most of the time i don’t get to come at all. That’s the law too.
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Me first maybe twice, then hubby either piv when i might again or bj, then me again until i cant take any more.
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Sounds fun…. I’d definitely win that one though 
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My OH always cums first. If I cum first we both seem to then loose interest, so she would be hard done by!
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The OH always cums first.
It’s not anrace for us, sometimes he cums first and sometimes I do. Sometimes I want him to cum first - ain’t no way I have the strength to ride him after an orgasm
I agree with @rockstar here. Sexterminatrix always gets to come first, no exceptions. At our ages, I’m more a one-and-done guy, my youth long gone, but she can still enjoy multiple orgasms. It’s the fairest way imo, and if I do end up getting too excited and come before her, then I still have to please her, so it’s my own fault really lol 
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Pretty even split, between us. My preference though is for her to cum first. In hopes she will have multiple O’s and that will keep me horny longer while all attention is on her. Then the focus shifts to me after she’s satisfied. Seeing her getting off adds to my arousal and soon I’m cumming hard.
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Girl always cums first. As many time as possible.
Then i feel i can get creative in how and when I cum
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My fiancée always first… Until she decides to whisper that it’s time for me to come for her. At that point, let’s just say I can never resist.
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If my wife’s suction rose is in reach she always comes first.
While she’s using the rose she’s sucking me at the same time so its beyond me how i never cum quicker.
Saying that im never far behind as once she cums she wants me in her asap where i last 5 mins tops..
Always Mrs J, I like to make sure of that.
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Unless I have got over excited 
always my OH
Always me first, can’t remember the last time the wife came….
Usually him. Then he goes down on me and cleans his cum out. But sometimes, I just feel like making him cum, while he’s watching TV and I’ll suck him off until he comes, swallow and then go about my business. 
I love doing that.
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A BJ whilst watching tv, what is not to like about that!!
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Would like to say i always ensure the wife orgasms first but some times thats cant be help and I just explode soon as she touches it. But if thats the case I’m lucky that I can carry straight on and ensure she does climax 
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Normally she comes first. It’s harder for her to reach an orgasm than for me, and normally she’s one and done so I spend time focussing on her. Sometimes if it’s been a while and I know I’ll come quickly I may come first just to give myself more stamina to be able to go again though!
Myself and my partner do mutual masturbation once a week and rather than race (because I’d always win haha) we time ourselves up so that we both orgasm at the same time, which is super sexy and really hot to watch each other pleasure ourselves!
The quickest I can reach orgasm is probably 30 seconds and for my partner with her wand and dildo the quickest she has orgasmed is around 5 minutes