Since our daughters left for uni and we’ve had the house to ourselves, we’ve been able to enjoy a more liberated sex life, in that we’re no longer constrained to the bedroom and keeping quiet!
Having had to keep quiet for what seems like years, it’s extremely liberating to make as much noise as we like and we’ve found it a real turn on to just let it out!
Whilst there are times when being quiet might be necessary, it got us thinking how the ability to be as vocal as you want makes a difference.
Both of us have really enjoyed hearing each others pleasure and being able to let it out, so to speak.
As a man who lived a lonely solo life for many years I got used to somewhat silent solo sessions
My Mrs however is quite loud when she gets going and enjoyed it when I make abit more noise. During ‘normal’ sex she makes most the noise but during more kinky times, especially pegging I can be quite loud
It’s all great but the only drawback I’ve found is that when she’s louder and audibly enjoying it more… it makes me think she’s closer to orgasm that turns me on… and makes me want to orgasm quicker to match her noise
Aw, that’s absolutely brilliant having the house to yourself! Being able to do whatever you want, whenever you want and as loud as you want just be absolutely amazing!!
I personally don’t make too much noise during sex as I live with other people and it would be really awkward having them hear. When I get close to orgasm I can’t help but whimper and moan a bit- it’s impossible to control! That being said I absolutely love hearing whoever I’m with moan, it makes me feel like I’m doing a good job, making them feel great
My wife moans quite a bit and is vocal during sex which is a great turn on.Hearing her talking out loud about cock is awesome.It is great just the two of us in the house.That being said when we are with our married friend couple and our older male friend and we have a bit of sexy fun this too is awesome.At the moment i am in chastity and it is such a turn on watching my wife get fingered and her tits sucked by the older man as i watch unable to relieve myself.When she starts squeaking and groaning as she nears orgasm it is simply delicious.When i am allowed release these memories of noisy times and her naughty behaviour make for one heck of a climax and when i groan out loud she too says she loves to hear me.
I’ve only ever been really quiet as used to always having someone about
I often thought seeing people in videos making loads of noise was something that happens involuntary from orgasms but then wondered why I’ve never felt the effect of not being able to stop myself from moaning… I then started wondering if it’s all just a put on that people do in the moment to express their joy to one another
We’ve got kids in the house, so most of the time quiet is the name of the game.
We had all the college years of having to stifle everything due to roommates (excepting rare weekends home when the parents would go out and we’d get to let loose - the first time I heard her scream under my tongue was lifechanging). Then newlyweds in an apartment (and on the pill) we had a little more privacy, but still not totally unleashed and her desire hampered (mysteriously).
She went off the pill when we moved out of grad school apartment, bought a house, and we had (mostly) 5 years of 4-walls privacy and no kids. It was game-changing for our exploration and some of my favorite home movies capture the sound of unfettered orgasm.
Now we do occasionally get the kids out to the grandparents and have the house to ourselves and make noise and love it. I love hearing her moan and it feels good to grunt and yell myself without concern. It’s especially helpful when we’re doing some power play. Something about saying, “That’s a good slut… suck my cock… I can’t wait to hear you moan when I fuck you in the ass” at full voice vs. hushed/whispered really builds it up.
But then we’ve also had some incredibly intense experiences playing and teasing to a powerful release when there’s kids sleeping right across the hall and stifling that orgasm with hands over mouths or biting into shoulders and the whimper instead of a yell can be such an incredibly sexy thing, too. I have many favorite orgasms also that occurred together in hushed and furtive circumstances.
So, yes - I think having freedom to make noise is just another inhibition that can be let loose and the more things that can be flung wide in the pursuit of pleasure the more and more it can build to. Love it. Love being loud.
I’m not that noisy during sex - a few moans or grunts. Would love some dirty talk while doing it especially from Mrs R asking me to fuck her or eat her out. But when she’s building to orgasm the fun starts ! Moaning, groaning, writhing it builds up. When she cums she’s loud and wild. Watching and listening to her gets me so hard, it’s all i can do not to cum while i stroke myself and enjoy the show. A real challenge when she’s using her vibrating dildo and has multiple orgasms. When i get a chance to penetrate her she holds me tight and asks me to cum for me baby its your turn cum for me ! Watching the little smile she has and the fuck me now look in her eyes drives me to orgasm without much effort. Gets me going just thinking of her.
There’s always some soft moaning, mostly from OH. Not that I’m quiet! I grunt when I cum. She moans a lot when her orgasm starts, but she isn’t loud at all.
We’re not really noisy at all
My wife sometimes tells me to hush if we’re staying at something like a B&B
I tend to talk as I’m getting close to my climax telling her how good she feels
If I’m home alone on cam with my wank buddies I’m pretty vocal so very different
I used to pop on music in the lounge so there was some background in case my conversation and dirty talk and vocals as I was near climaxing were overheard by our neighbour
She’s given me a knowing look a couple of times when our paths crossed going to our cars on our drive lol
More recently I have been turned on by possibility of her hearing me cum when she knows my wife’s car’s not there lol
@greenlantern omg yes I love hearing those bed springs get a good workout lol
As I get older if we’re doing doggie or missionary stuff it’s usually my back creaking lol
After years of needing to be quiet due to kids in the house, we are getting the house to ourselves a bit more these days. We are probably louder when the house is empty but it’s more about knowing we won’t be interrupted so taking our time and relaxing more. In terms of whether its better to be quiet or noisy, it doesn’t really matter to me either way, it’s more important that we are both just having great sex!
Love when the OH is vocal, especially when she tells me what she wants me to do to her during sex and lets me know that she is enjoying what I am doing.
My partner will climax quickly if I’m too noisy, so I’m usually pretty quiet until I’m close to climax! I’ve only heard him moan once (during a blow job), and I loved it
I’ve always been noisy- I can’t help it when I’m experiencing pleasure and I know it turns my husband on. Also gives him a very big clue that he’s hitting the right spot.
We have 3 teenage kids now though who go to bed after us which means I’m having to learn to be quiet- which essentially invites sticking a pillow in my mouth !!
My wife is very loud during sex and I love it. When are friends have stayed over they have often commented on the sounds can be a bit awkward when visiting parents tho.
Show after 14 years together we still have a amazing active sex life.
