Simply watching you partner fucking or being fucked by another person that is the same sex as you. What do you think is the basic draw for this other than it makes you horny. Why does it make you horny?
If you are a person who has watched, why?
if you are the person who provided the entertainment, why do you think your partner wanted it to happen?
I admit that I find it slightly intriguing, but I know with every once of my sole I could not handle the jealousy and I’m positive my wife would never do it and would be upset if she knew I even thought of it.
I know I am not someone who has done this but in my opinion I think watching porn might be something do do with it. Watching it and finding it a turn on and then it crosses their mind wouldn’t it be a turn on if their partner was involved and so that is how it happens. they find por n enjoyable so therefore they believe watching their on with someone else will be enjoyable. Something has to trigger it off.
Partners agree to do it for a variety of reasons, they want to p!ease their partner, they genuinely want to do it for their own reasons, bored with their sex life, want to try a bigger cock or bigger boobies, whatever but I do believe there will be those that are coerced and pressured into it, which is completely wrong. I have seen it happen and it didn’t end well.
For me my husband knows where I stand on this, best be open and talk about these things so you know where you both stand.
My husband enjoys watching me when I use my toys but he has said he would not want to watch another person pleasure me as he wants to do that to me himself, he wants to be the cause of my p!easure not watch someone else do it to me.
If you know you could never go ahead because of jealousy and you know your partner would not want to do it best keep it as your secret fantasy.
Oh we are just like you. It will never happen and I don’t want it to happen. I’m more interested in the psychology of this situation and why people are interested in watching. I get why some people want to be the one fucking.
again no judgement or commentary but I feel like I would be disrespecting my wife if I asked her to do it or even admit I have a very slight fantasy.
I don’t know if my husband has this fantasy, he says not so I believe him. But if he said he did I know I would be upset and hurt by him asking me to do it. I could never look at.him in the same way.
I’m fantasize about my gf with another woman, as at first watch then join in. She desires to explore having sex with another woman as long as the other gal doesn’t mind me joining in.
But I would also be interested to know and hear from someone who has done this and what their reasons were for wanting to see their partner with someone else and also why someone agreed to do it, did they have other reason besides just wanting to please their partner.
Main thing for me is my partner is perfect physically, so it’s like watching your favourite pornstar getting nailed.
plus the taboo side of cheating and sharing, my partner loves when I talk about how other guys would be lucky to use her holes as they are absolutely incredible. So it’s a two way thing:
for me: seeing my favourite person in a sexual situation
For her: being idolised and feeling desirable/sexy
I know what she’s getting. As long as she doesn’t forget who’s letting her enjoy him (or think she’s better rhan me), I love sharing. If she tries to steal him, she’s out. If she succeeds, she can have him and he knows I won’t have him back.
I’m married to an amazing, sexy man, and by extension I’m sure he’d say the same about his wife. We share because we love and trust one another but know we aren’t the only ones who find each other attractive. Nothing turns me on quite like sharing my husband with another girl who finds him attractive, or being shared with another man by him who finds me attractive. We’ve had some amazing sex because of me being willing to share my hushand with other women.
That’s not particularly my cup of tea so to speak. But my fantasy would be having one of the massages that turn into her being fucked in the end while I masturbate
Something I fantasies about. I think it’s because my favourite thing in the bedroom is seeing my wife in sexual situations and have orgasms. So I think the idea of sitting back and watching that as a spectator is quite exciting too and the fantasy of her just enjoying herself. I can’t see it ever happening but it’s a fun fantasy and she enjoys playing along with the idea too in the right situation.
Fantasy and reality tend to butt heads where things like this are concerned. I have the same fantasy. Had it for as long as I can remember, but have never acted on it because the reality of another man with my wife is not something i could ever stand to see in the flesh. but that’s just me. Some people are what’s referred to as “swingers” and they do it all the time1 LOL
This is something my partner wants, to the extent of couples counselling to explore an open relationship. Her view is that it’ll be like live porn with the man she finds super attractive.
I make her super happy, and watching me do that too someone else, from an angle she can’t usually see, is a turn on.
She also likes the idea of other people doing things to me that she’s less keen on.
To me, watching her lose her mind with someone sounds awful.