Why dry-humping is now my favourite way to masturbate

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As a trans woman with a penis, I’ve had the previous experience of masturbating solely to satisfy my genitals because orgasms were centralised to this region only. I would use hands, both hands or dry-hump if I wanted to use my phone to consume pornography, but all orgasms felt the same. This is before I started hormone replacement therapy.

Today orgasms are full-body experiences. On a scale of 1-10 a male orgasm wouldn’t even make the scale, and even abstaining from orgasming for a week - while generating strong orgasms would only rank as a 2 whereas I’ve had orgasms in the 8 range these days, and this is thanks to dry-humping. While I did this previously, the way my body reacts to stimuli now makes this a very addictive experience, because my orgasms feel so good from them that I want to experience the feeling again immediately.

The reason why dry-humping is now favourite way to masturbate is because when I use my hands I find that my goal is to satisfy my penis, whereas dry-humping drawers my attention to my whole body since it’s my hips that does the action. This form of masturbation has many advantages.

  1. It’s hands-free which means I can focus on pleasuring other parts of my body like my nipples or grab my breasts.

  2. I can comfortably consume porn in bed. My phone is above my pillow and I can lose myself in what I’m looking at while still masturbating. I can read a sexual comic, turn the page with one hand, play with my nipple with the other and still pleasure my genitals.

  3. I reach my sensitive spots with ease. The underside of the glans (penis head) is the most sensitive spots and this is being rubbed mercilessly against my bed at all times no matter what.

  4. My hips join in. Many of you probably do this when you’re masturbating, you’re in the middle of it and your hips start moving on their own, your legs tense and you flex your toes. Getting the whole body moving enhances the experience.

  5. All of this contributes to amazing orgasms. My brain is constantly stimulated, my hands can touch other erogenous zones, moving my hips gets my body hot and involved, and my genitals are constantly being touched in their best spot. All of this gives me orgasms that shoot through my body and delivers wave after wave of ecstasy that often makes me moan into my pillow.

If you haven’t tried dry-humping give it a go, you may find it to be fun experience.

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This is really interesting - thank you for sharing your experience :slightly_smiling_face:

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Great to hear you’ve found something that works so well for you. I really enjoy dry humping but have never considered what it would be like for someone with a penis so it’s good to read your account

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Thanks for sharing! I love a good dry hump (although hate the term), it’s so underrated too. Great to hear it from your perspective! :blush:

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I was shocked when I found out what masturbation was and realised I had already been doing it (dry humping). I have no idea how I started :laughing:.

It’s still more reliable for me than using my fingers, although I mostly use vibrators these days. However I often use it for a secondary orgasm after coming with a vibrator, as I’d be too sensitive to keep going otherwise.

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You might want to edit your post, anything posted with ages under 18 are against community guidelines.

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I’ve loved dry humping for years but can rarely enjoy it these days with being so overweight.

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@Purring-Pussy Thanks, I’ve edited. Obvious now you mention it but didn’t even think about it!

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I’ve had the same experience. I had been doing it before the time I learned what masturbation was. It provides me with my most intense orgasms. Yesterday I came twice with my vibrator, but when I later went to masturbate again, dry-humping gave me a vastly stronger orgasm. It’s the only form of masturbation that gets me moaning.

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